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#40: January 30, 2011, 06:04:09 AM
glad V your happy as you soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo deseve to be XXXXXXXXXXXXx ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#41: January 31, 2011, 09:10:50 AM
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I am really sorry I didn't get to travel across to meet with you and to take part in what sounds like a very successful and enjoyable weekend!

Just to be sure I can make the next one in May (??) can I declare now that the only two weekends I can't travel are 6/9 and 13/16 May.

Hope to hear more from Stayed shortly!

Well done Bewildered for setting this in motion!
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#42: January 31, 2011, 09:17:11 AM
Great job ladies.
Can I say I am envious.
It would have been kind of far for me to come from NY
but I do think that it is great that you guys all got together and I DO think it will help all of you in moving forward!

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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#43: January 31, 2011, 09:27:37 AM
Angel

We are all sorry too you could not make the weekend - can always do with an Angel around!!
Le me have your private email address then I can add you to the list OK

Many thanks for giving us the dates you can make in May - I will see if I can ensure its one of these date for the next LBS conference (lets be strong) !!!
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Anymore of you out  there?????? that may want to be included ???

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thanks for your input - it was very cathartic as well as normalising the MLC world for me - making it seem so much more real as the stories we swapped between us made me see that my H MLC is not just a loopy man who's 'lost the plot', my main worry - but after so many discussions this weekend I feel that MLC is more real and he (mt H) is really in MLC and its something that is totally out of my control , for now but learnt that if he ever wants to make a new life between us it will take a lot of me to help him   and so now I have time to think this through - is this something that I can do or even do I want too ???
So yes very forward moving was the weekend as well as relaxing in a weird way?

Understanding the issues that others have faced (H coming back then leaving/broken men and the fixing needed/ etc) and the repercussions has been enlightening !


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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#44: January 31, 2011, 09:35:25 AM
I too would like to play!! Let me know the dates...since I'd be coming from Colorado, I'd want to spend a week or so (it's a bit far for the weekend?) and my preference would be to come the week before.

Anybody interested in joining me for some touring/sight seeing?

Exactly where are you going to be meeting?

Bewildered, I'll send you a PM with my email address ok?

Stayed and Voyager have a blast!
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#45: January 31, 2011, 10:21:16 AM
Thank you so much Bewildered for arranging our LBS weekend.  I try to start my day thinking about everything I am grateful and thankful for and now I can add another thing to my list.  I am so grateful and thankful for meeting all you LBS last weekend and to know that you are now in my life.   You are all amazing women, with so much strength and courage and I am really looking forward to keeping in touch and to meeting up again soon.     Love and hugs to you all.
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#46: January 31, 2011, 01:34:59 PM
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I appreciate your thanks and I really like you enjoyed the 'meeting up'. see you soon XX
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#47: January 31, 2011, 02:03:20 PM
I am in Scotland but love to join you for your next session........so glad it all went really well.xx
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#48: January 31, 2011, 11:21:19 PM
HI Sam

let me via PM have your emial (private) and tel number and own name and i will ensure we sort this out !!
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Re: If you live in the UK - want to meet up?
#49: January 31, 2011, 11:30:08 PM
 :'( :'( :'( :'(
I am so far away and I am the only Aussie as well.

Next time please can I join in via Internet camera
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