[Absolutely Fabulous]

Glad to hear it. I'm going to be packing all week. I plan to be out of the house by Saturday. Just taking what we need for now. I'm planning on a having an estate sale soon too. He told his lawyer that he didn't want me to sell anything in the house. The last vestige of control I guess.

His mail is still coming to the house. Why? I don't know. So is my oldest. It's like they both seem to think that someday they'll be coming back to a house that's going to foreclosed on next month. That's when the for sale sign apparently is going up. Don't know anymore than that.

I wonder why our MLCers think that they can just reinvent a life right out of thin air? I know that it's a form of illness. Definitely the Narcissist trying to feel real. I haven't heard from mind since the day he left. I'm hoping that that's a good thing. No more monster. Maybe now that he has his own place, he can concentrate on whoever he's with. At any rate, I'll be able to finally have some peace.

I also haven't heard anything from my lawyer for now. I don't know if that's good or bad. I've heard that MLCers' are known for slowing down the divorce process. Mine is holding onto the money with such a tight fist, that I'm sure his hand is bleeding.