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OP: May 08, 2016, 08:56:13 AM
Back by popular demand! It is coming up on the one year anniversary of the Mid-Atlatntic meet-up that was so wonderfully organized by Willit last year.  After talking with Medusa and making a suggestion for another one, well, here is the forum for open discussion about a meet-up in perhaps mid-August.  Wanted to throw out the idea and see if there is any traction.  It can be a simple, long-weekend with activities or not.  Details to be worked out.

Hope to see the old crew again and many new faces as well! 
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#1: May 08, 2016, 09:53:07 AM
where in the mid atlantic is this meet up?
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#2: May 08, 2016, 10:11:48 AM
I would be interested.
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#3: May 08, 2016, 10:18:06 AM
I am interested although not sure if it will be possible financially.
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#4: May 08, 2016, 01:48:22 PM
Europe, anyone? Italy, maybe?
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#5: May 08, 2016, 03:00:27 PM
I agree Bipolar, IF I can afford it I'd love to go!!!

Anti, now you're talking out of my pay range.  But sounds fun.   ;D

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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#6: May 08, 2016, 05:08:09 PM
I am interested. 
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#7: May 10, 2016, 06:33:06 AM
Of course I'm interested! Last year was fantastic.

We will need to figure out a place that's reasonably located for us to meet. Is PA reasonable for everyone? I'm thinking Harrisburg, Gettysburg, Hanover...those are a bit more centrally located for all of us (at least those who went last year).
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#8: May 10, 2016, 06:47:28 AM
I'm in Minnesota, so it would be nice to meet somewhere in the middle of the country, like Chicago.
Of course you could always come to Minnesota.   ;D ;D
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Re: Second Annual Mid-Atlantic Meet-Up?
#9: May 10, 2016, 01:59:55 PM
Chicago might be nice and the airport is close by, so no need for a car.  We could play in the city for the weekend.
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