Goodness, I was not attacking your husband, I was stating an opinion. The way that Trump lashed out at Hilary, with that "nasty woman" comment during the debate was very telling. It is not difficult for me to extrapolate that a normally kind and respectful man to suddenly become a TRUMP supporter, something drastic has occurred. Now considering all of us have been dealing with mid life crisis's, it seemed like a fairly logical explanation. Especially for a RECOVERED MLCer, as they are generally very remorseful and regretful of their terrible treatment of their spouse.
I was not saying your h is still in crisis, I was basically suggesting that maybe you consider that as a possibility. Even if he is mostly out, it takes them a long time to completely be done with it. Remaining hostile to women, showing anger and hostilities to other cultures, ethnicities, faiths, could be an indicator that your h is not quite recovered.
That's all I was saying. I was also suggesting that maybe the same was for RCR, Slow Fade and perhaps even OP is having a bit of a crisis. Many of the people that supported Trump have a genuine propensity to buying into his fear mongering. Most of them are not well educated and have very strong views about what a man is. Even their women, have a strong opinion about what women should be like, especially extremely religious folks as they believe that women should love first their God, then Husband, then children and so forth down the line.
Just my personal opinion.