This just arrived in my e-mail box courtesy of a subscription I have to the SSJE (Society of Saint John the Evangelist) which is a religious order. They send out an e-mail called "Brother, give us a word" and it is a single word with an interpretation behind it... Today's word is.....
Detachment - Claim your preferences; clarify your hoped-for outcomes; advocate for what you think the right decision. The practice of detachment then allows us to both claim our desires and, simultaneously, to recognize that they may not come to be. Detachment allows us to hold our desires in one open palm and to recognize the outcome might be quite different, maybe even opposite what we hope for or desire. That’s life.
Me - 61, xW - 54
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 17, D - 13
1 Dog
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
Moved on in life
Survival Instructions for NewbiesSite Map A "friend" will not "stand by you" no matter what you do. That is NOT a friend. That is an enabler. That is an accomplice.
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REAL friend will sit you down and tell you to your face to stop being a firetrucking idiot before you ruin your life and the lives of those around you.