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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher?
#151: April 29, 2017, 07:16:57 PM
         Thank you, i think i have read these before but its been a while.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher?
#152: April 29, 2017, 07:42:48 PM
Sure bluerose. I want to make sure sparklestar sees it too.

It's time for a new thread. I made a new one for this topic. See you there.

New Thread:
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8990.msg585429#new

I don't see a lock button, maybe I'm wrong and locking is just for own personal threads?

Maybe someone can clear this up for me please?
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« Last Edit: April 29, 2017, 07:50:15 PM by Elegance »

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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher?
#153: April 29, 2017, 07:54:51 PM
The goal of a MLC is to emotionally mature. Their ability to emotionally mature was broken as a child. MLC is when they are forced to fix it.

https://thestagesandlessonsofmidlife.org/the-goal-of-the-mid-life-crisis-full-emotional-maturation/

Here is another article on their process. This one sort of has us as LBS involved after they heal their issues.

MLC is a long yet temporary process.

https://thestagesandlessonsofmidlife.org/the-first-healing-stage-the-settling-down-process/

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« Last Edit: April 29, 2017, 07:59:26 PM by Elegance »

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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher?
#154: April 29, 2017, 08:24:18 PM
Oh I must have gotten lost. I thought this was a thread about vanishers.

Nope... it's the elegance show. Again.  ::)

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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher?
#155: April 29, 2017, 08:37:22 PM
I am having problems opening the articles about children - getting a forbidden error message....I would dearly love to read these, have you any suggestions why the link is not working?  Mlc maturation worked perfectly
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