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#150: November 04, 2019, 11:39:44 AM
That’s really sad about your bro, Brain.

Basically, he’s spent his whole life in search of his “lobster” (shameless “Friends” reference).  Perhaps he never cared.  My aunt is like that.  She’s been widowed three times and has remarried each time.  I’ve never thought she was really in love with each, just that they looked good on her arm and wore the right shoes. 

Some people’s priorities are very, very screwed-up.
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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#151: November 04, 2019, 12:31:59 PM
MBIB:

Interesting how we all have different bonding styles.
I could never imagine having a style similar to your brothers.
I imagine most/(all?) of us are in the same position.
However, I guess your brother could never imagine having one like ours (as he said).

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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#152: November 04, 2019, 01:00:21 PM
I'm not sure I could be "Wife No. 5" to anyone. Wow
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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#153: November 04, 2019, 01:12:44 PM
If I got married again it would be three times lucky perhaps or people would think I like cake!
I think I will stick to my diet of hope and singleness as it’s less traumatic and I would probably pick another faulty one anyway.
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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#154: November 04, 2019, 01:35:14 PM
People like Trump have absolutely no business getting married over, and over again.

Their words aren’t worth a hill of beans.  Just makes a mockery of the institution.  And my XH is the latest to do so.

Get married at a courthouse, or don’t do it at all.
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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#155: November 04, 2019, 03:28:56 PM
KIT, wife #5 is history. He met a woman on the Internet, moved in with her for a few months, and then they moved to Florida. I was sorry to see it. I liked wife #5. I think she might have been the best of the bunch.
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Re: Shocks sis recovered MLCer 10
#156: November 04, 2019, 03:37:22 PM
SS,

Please start a new Question and Answer thread when you get time.  :)

New thread:  https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11206.0

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