[confused_but_trying]

I too have started having dreams about my W.  I'm almost 3 months in since BD and had the first dream two nights ago and I had another last night.  In them she is cold and distant; it's as if the BD either hasn't happend yet or just did happen.  What's weird is that I was driving my mustang which rarely gets driven anymore as it isn't my daily driver.  I find it interesting that I too do not think about her during the day, but am having dreams about her.  Could these dreams be a result of us pushing our spouse out of our minds during the day?  As far as loved ones go; I had a dream right after BD that my grandad was in.  He told me that everything was going to be fine and comforted me.  He passed away in 2008.  I loved him so much; I miss him more than I can express in words.

[Lovely1]

I had a very symbolic dream two nights ago - when I was off the sleeping pills.

I was clinging to BF. The next room was flooded and all my possessions were floating out of the room.... H was there trying to get his gun and talking ineffectually to a policeman.

In the next dream my next door neighbour was parading his stupid teenage 'friend' in front of his lovely wife. She was sitting quietly and had her hood down.

[jos]

Topsy Turvy.

I am 8 months since BD but only 1 month since finding out about OW.  I  have just started to dream about them and I don't like it....  They are usually dreams of them in my house... I suppose I`m scared of losing my home.

To me, this dream Is more to do with them both 'inhabiting' your house now (ie. always there in your head wherever you go). They've both 'moved in' with you. There is no escape -ain't that the truth!!!.

[UnconditionalLove]

I just thought about this the other day. I haven't had a dream of any kind in months. Nothing!

[Finding Hope]

I haven't dreamt much about my husband but, a few weeks ago, I dreamed that he was with another women, who was much older then me, fat, ugly with 3 grown daughters. I woke myself up laughing.

FH