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My Story My journey after Divorce
OP: Today at 04:48:55 AM
Thank you Nas and Ursa.
I agree with you both. It could be that those dreams were a result of the things I told myself but deep inside I am still not fully out of those emotions. I always tell myself I don't care about my xh anymore and I don't feel anything for him anymore, partly because I want to move on and so I convinced myself he doesn't matter anymore. Those repressed feelings emotions come out in a dream. Or as Ursa said, it could be some residual emotions that I haven't totally gotten rid of. But what I am sure of is that my mind and body are still not over processing all the things that MLC brought in my life. Once in a while I imagine this conversation with  like some sort of a closure where I can pour everything to him. But I don't wait for the dialogue to come, and I am more than convinced that it may never come. It could be part of my healing process to say in my mind what I've been wanting to tell him. It is quite a long journey.
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Me 43 at BD
H    45 at BD
Married 11 yrs at BD, no kids,
BD May 2019 (I moved out Nov 2019)
EA or PA with ex gf (not sure), H spent 3 nights with the hoe during our vacation in July 2019, it was a friendly encounter according to H
H wanted D April 2020 seeing suspected OW2 (divorced with two kids) and 2 years older than him, H didn’t file the D
Clinging boomerang
6/21 H moved in with me; kicked him out 01/22
H turned into a vanisher, wants a Divorce, OW 3 (16 years younger and extreme sporty)
14.11.22 Divorce final, I'm done
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