Very true S4M and Stayed ... I agree with that, and I am coming now to the point of being able to say that I am happy within myself, I am a strong person, and I know that my future will be good no matter what my H chooses to do. My happiness comes from within myself, living to my values and giving my love and time to others, and myself too. In the past I maybe forgot myself and later resented this not being recognised, mainly by my H. Today will be a great day, and tomorrow is looking good, the future will take care of itself, and I do not worry about that now. I think my journey has been successful, and its not over yet, I will do more than survive, I will flourish.
Got my rose coloured specs Freddygone!!