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#90: September 09, 2011, 05:36:41 PM
Quote from: kikki on September 09, 2011, 04:04:04 PM

(Yeah, but how many years does it take for them to see the LIGHT?)  ???

That is the 1 million dollars question! 8)

Whatever time they need to figure themselves out?...And how many years do they take to do that? No one knows. Hence the divorce and move one with our lives issue that has been debated here on the forum several times. Should we stay and stand or should we go and remarry?...

synicca, what a crazy story that of your husband. you've been divorced since 05? are you still standing for your husband?
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Re: PA vs. EA
#91: September 09, 2011, 05:39:53 PM
AnneJ,

we divorced and remarried in 06..LONG story!! :)
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Re: PA vs. EA
#92: September 09, 2011, 05:41:40 PM
Quote from: synicca on September 09, 2011, 05:39:53 PM
AnneJ,

we divorced and remarried in 06..LONG story!! :)

Ah! a reconciliation! Excelent! :-) May I ask why you stay around here? His he in MLC currently?
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Re: PA vs. EA
#93: September 09, 2011, 05:44:29 PM
He is in full blown MLC now...we had alot of problems back then...he was a meth addict, and he cheated before.
but, I think he was hitting MLC back in 05-06, but I forced him out...then he re-entered MLC again about 3 years ago.

hiit full on Replay last year.
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OW moved out 03/11
H moved home 06/11
Affair ended 05/12 again and again and again
H Blocked xOW from contacting Him 10/12
Ended ALL contact with xOW Dec 26th 2012 (So I thought!) I filed for D June 10th 2013
Moved out.

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Re: PA vs. EA
#94: September 09, 2011, 05:44:34 PM
Let's see, full custody in exchange for half the furniture.  I kinda want a new couch anyway.........
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Re: PA vs. EA
#95: September 09, 2011, 05:45:41 PM
yep, Thundarr.....That about sums it up..sick if you ask me!

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Re: PA vs. EA
#96: September 09, 2011, 05:48:32 PM
As far as I'm concerned, my W can take ALL the furniture in exchange for giving me full custody.  We'll eat on the floor if we have to.
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Re: PA vs. EA
#97: September 09, 2011, 05:50:16 PM
Yep!! I agree!!

someone would have to step over my dead body to get my D..:)
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H Blocked xOW from contacting Him 10/12
Ended ALL contact with xOW Dec 26th 2012 (So I thought!) I filed for D June 10th 2013
Moved out.

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Re: PA vs. EA
#98: September 09, 2011, 05:54:16 PM
Quote from: synicca on September 09, 2011, 05:44:29 PM
He is in full blown MLC now...we had alot of problems back then...he was a meth addict, and he cheated before.
but, I think he was hitting MLC back in 05-06, but I forced him out...then he re-entered MLC again about 3 years ago.

hiit full on Replay last year.

 :-[ Hope you will reconciliate again soon.

Reading your words I'm happy I did nor accept to become husband's "girfriend" back in sprig 08.it would ahve not stop a thing. Better let him spend all his replay away from me.

Thundarr, I'm sorry I have no kids. Will never know the thrill or trading them for half the furniture.  ;D tch, tch, tch...I really could use some furniture!  ;D
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Re: PA vs. EA
#99: September 09, 2011, 05:55:09 PM
Thundarr, It sounds like full custody in exchange for an OLD couch.
 Even worse. ::)
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