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#10: January 28, 2012, 09:32:02 AM
Hi everyone. Thanks for responding. Happy to hear this is normal. Love the line "they hide it in toilets"!!! Because he takes his to the bathroom when he goes. He also sleeps with it next to him face down, like he's waiting for an IV drug hit. Before 6 months ago, he left it laying around, hardly used it, no password. Guess conversation turned more serious after BD and he couldn't keep up with deleting the texts so he locked it. Since they really only communicate by phone, he may be more addicted to the instant text/call fix more than her as the person. After he leaves and he doesn't have to secret his phone, maybe her in person conversations won't be so exciting. She'll prob be mad if she sees that he still has his password on his phone once they can be together full time. Because right now she figures that password is just for me. Will then think he's hiding something from HER.
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Re: 150 calls, 250 texts and 2500 minutes a month!
#11: January 28, 2012, 09:34:05 AM
Hah!

I'm addicted to this website and all the messages here!

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Re: 150 calls, 250 texts and 2500 minutes a month!
#12: January 28, 2012, 10:26:55 AM
Actually... I see "The PHONE!!!" as a Horror film.... 8) Every time it rings, you scream, hahahahahaha!!
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#13: January 28, 2012, 11:55:16 AM
Hope there are going to be some bit parts for us LBSs in this film!

My ex never used to take his mobile phone with him.  Now it is definitely a permanent fixture and OW is texting all the time.  She also emails him at work all day and apparently hardly waits until he is out of the door in the morning before sending her first email!  (I just happened to see the other day at work that he had had an email from her just after he arrived.)  Sounds like teenagers to me!

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Re: 150 calls, 250 texts and 2500 minutes a month!
#14: January 28, 2012, 12:04:46 PM
   The Phone..My H still has our family plan phone...He only calls me or the haircutting place or his Mom or work..He had another phone for his old job that you buy pre paid minutes on but he only uses that sparingly..I don't think he keeps in touch with Bowser a lot when she's at work. She has to ask permission to go for a break and they time it :o :o :o :o :o :o  LOL Not once did I see her number on our phone bill. See? LG, cheater's etiquette again!  LOL...Me? He texted 40 times last Friday........Oh I wish ow saw that......Schmooopie my a**...... ::)
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#15: January 28, 2012, 12:08:06 PM
10,000 plus text messages from my H each month...Dont know the calls..yep, teenager behaviour to a T!
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Re: 150 calls, 250 texts and 2500 minutes a month!
#16: January 28, 2012, 12:20:32 PM

Apparently exH and his new wife have some phone app that lets them GPS track eachother at all times--isn't that sweet?  Even my kids think it's creepy, I guess they both check it frequently...  Love is so beautiful, and could never be mistaken for lack of trust, right...
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#17: January 28, 2012, 12:25:17 PM
  Lisa and they can leave the phone somewhere and be somewhere else :o :o :o :o :o  Remember they're in an R with someone who has a history of cheating!!!     :P
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#18: January 28, 2012, 09:43:55 PM
Oh Honey...I found out about OW when I saw the phone bill was quite a bit higher than usual and just went into it to see if I could tell which of us was using so many minutes.  I find the strange number at odd hours and called it...SURPRISE to me...a female and I just knew that it was not business-related.  Don't remember how many minutes, but it was enough.  Prepare to be shocked with the number of texts between the two of them though...

...during a six-week period, they sent over 2,000 texts!!!  This was in addition to emails and phone conversations.  I know H was talking to her on his office phone too so don't really know HOW much they talked.  But I don't know how he didn't text his flippin' fingers off with so many texts.  It's an addiction and they just have to feed it constantly.
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Re: 150 calls, 250 texts and 2500 minutes a month!
#19: January 29, 2012, 06:02:04 AM
Quote from: Synicca on January 28, 2012, 12:08:06 PM
10,000 plus text messages from my H each month...Dont know the calls..yep, teenager behaviour to a T!

Wow, Synicca. 10,000 texts a month, that is soooo  severe of an addiction. OMG. Can't believe he was able to wake up and come back home being that addicted. That is amazing. Does he realize it was that many? Now that he is out of or coming out of the tunnel, he must be floored. Would you mind sharing a bit about his awakening? I don't have much hope for mine based on his contact and fact that she is an ex who 2 of his family members like.
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