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Author Topic: MLC Monster LifeTwo - Help! My wife is having a mid-life crisis - Advice please 2

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I see it keeping going. Some of us already split time and others seem to have enjoyed their time spent.  It's odd that some positive things have happened in just this short period of time due to LT being temporarily down as some members seem to have greatly benefitted from HB and others' help.  Things really do happen for a reason.

Tigger, I was wondering when you would show up.  A few LTers lurked but never posted, and the more of us the better.  It's kind of like an invasion or something, and we were the scouts.  Lol
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Tigger...welcome to the HS site from your LT friends. 

Y'all, Tigger has helped me immensely over the past several months in moving me forward.  He has innate connection with me and sends me texts at just the right moment when I am struggling.  He senses me somehow and he is a true friend and brother LBS.  I call him the SAGE as his level of knowledge with our Heavenly Father's words is used just at the right time.  His is the only texts I save now to remind me to let God do His work. 
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BD#1: 9/2017
BD#2: 11/2017
D in the works.  I AM DONE!!!
Separated: 12/2017
OM: EAs up to at least 6 now, 2 PAs-confirmed

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So you're deleting mine?

Totally agree about Tigger as I've met few people with such a knowledge of the Bible and he has helped me greatly as well.  We were the first Lifetwoers to get together but there needs to be an LBS soirĂ©e bash.  TEH wants to plan for Spring and I'm up for it!
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THUNDARR = deleting yours...sorry bro, didn't mean any offense.  Actually I delete nearly everything now as it was a change that He guided me to do.  The Lord told me to let go of all the messages and stop documenting my wife's behavior and let him do His work.  So really, I don't have nearly anything at all in inbox/sent folders.  Helps the cell phone to in receiving better I think. 

"we'll always have Paris..."......LOL...if anyone gets that remark
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S15 & S11 [from MLCer1]
BD#1: 9/2017
BD#2: 11/2017
D in the works.  I AM DONE!!!
Separated: 12/2017
OM: EAs up to at least 6 now, 2 PAs-confirmed

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As someone who was also an LT participant on and off, if you are just joining here, I'm sure you recall me quoting or referring to RCR (Roller Coaster Rider), HB (Hearts Blessing) and Stayed, and of course OP who is also on both LT and this forum.

Again, if you're just coming on board, I want to reinforce what Thundarr said...read all you can here.  There is a wealth of information in the archives.  If nothing else, check out the stories of RCR, HB and Stayed.

Glad to see so many of you here!
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Mark Twain

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Oh, and also, check out the "Links to reconcilliation/reconnecting" archive.  These are current stories of MLC/LBS in the process of working things out and the trials and tribulations while doing so...

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"I have been studying the traits and dispositions of the "lower animals" (so called) and contrasting them with the traits and dispositions of man. I find the result humiliating to me."
Mark Twain

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I am glad to be of service, ( I Robot reference for the non geek) in some small way. I would love to meet up with some more of the the guys, I really enjoyed meeting up with Thundarr, wonderful man, he is. Had some good food and a few beers, would be fun with a whole bunch of us invading a place lol, let me know if this is going to come to pass.
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 Moc, my friend, we both benefit from our interaction, believe me it is not all one one way. I truly appreciate your faith, your dedication to your family, your willingness to make changes in yourself as needed. A lot of good qualities, in the end as long as we do things HIS way, He will give us the peace we need (Phillipians 4:5-7).
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STNG...I believe 'we'll always have Paris' is from Star Trek Next Generation
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