[Ready2Transform]

Mine's Google-stalked me.  I have a lot of websites for business, and I put trackers on them.  She's easily identifiable.  It's happened at specific times, definitely when she's feeling insecure due to one of their breakups or him not giving her attention. 

[Poppy]

 I had silent calls for weeks, the number was always  with held.....until I got lucky one night, they rang, I picked up, they hung up, I did the usual 1471 (uk) expecting number with held....it wasn't, I managed to get a mobile number. I did nothing with it for two weeks,.I never dreamt in a million years it would be OW, even though my friends thought it would be. One day I put the number in google search....sure enough it was Ow...google brought up the mobile number plus her full name!

I screamed! I was so shocked, I couldn't believe it.

Confronted my H, he couldn't explain it and he did defend her....perhaps she rang you by mistake???

Nah, I don't think so honey!

Calls stopped after that, started up in June this year then stopped again, can't prove its her this time tho, number with held.

I think these OW do it when they are feeling threatened by the LBS or their fantasy life hits a rocky patch.

Hugs xx

[FindingJoJo]

I actually missed the call but BIL answered - she was kind enough to offer him back to me, isn't that nice.  He cheated on her, I started laughing because it took 15 years for him to do this and less to me and less than 2 months for her.  I told BIL that's nice he was never hers to give so I wasn't sweating it.  She did send messages through family.

[RainbowGal]

  During return #3,my W and I were away on vacation.My instincts were not as honed then as they are now and I was unaware the adultery had started back up again.I figured it out on last day of our vacation but W was still denying.I think my W tried to break it off via phone with her that day.I then began receiving taunting texts(while still on vacation) from OW followed by photos she had asked my W to text to her of herself from that very vacation we were on as proof to me that my W was lying.I was HORRIFIED!OW was awfully quick to throw her soul mate schmoopie under the bus once things were not going well!Of course,that didn't stop the affair from picking back again shortly thereafter as I kicked W out again after finding out she was lying and cheating again.

 Next time OW contacted me was shortly thereafter,as W had returned home again.OW would NEVER respect the "no contact" that was requested of her after every break-up.This time,I answered W's cell phone and asked to her to move on with her life.I told her nothing my W had ever said to her was authentic and to please respect our privacy.She continued to call and text my W and then sent one to me telling me "to get a f'ing life you b!tc#...your W has cheated on your more than once,what does that say about you?You are the one that needs to get a f'ing life..I should get a restraining order on you....blah,blah,blah".Needless to say,I didn't respond.W was appalled at OW's true colors coming through but sure enough,that was still not enough to keep W from caving to more of OW's emotional blackmail shortly thereafter and the circus started back up again.

 Oh gawd,I have heard it all!W would let me listen in on some of the crazy phone call/voice mails this woman would make upon being dumped...she would threaten suicide over and over;she was dying because she had been vomiting for 4 days;she needed my W to be there for some ailment she was having....she would say,"you told me you would never go back to your W because you told me she has bad breath"..wtf??you can't make this stuff up,I tell ya!

 The latest,right before my W again succumbed to OW's enticement +emotional blackmail tactics,were the usual  regular calls to W's cell phone from blocked number at all hours of the night.She does this everytime W leaves and then tells W when they are reunited soul mate schmoopies,that she just had to call to hear her voice on the voice mail.

 Amusingly enough,OW's last efforts at this angered my W so much that 3 days before I was forced to ask W to leave again due to her giving in to OW contact,my W woke me up to ask how do we go about putting a restraining order on this woman to stop the calls!

 There's more...but you get the whacked out picture of my crazy sitch.

[Catching Fire]

In my case OM.

Since my W left I have seen a few different cars ride up and down my street which is a dead end. Someone who looks like OM is always driving by looking towards the house. Also he is some sort of computer genius and since then I keep getting emails that will appear to be from one of my friends but then has a link to click on. Could this be him trying to hack my phone? Also have had some strange calls with people hanging up and such. Otherwise nothing definite.

It sickens me to know this is the person who helped my W move her stuff out of the house May 29, also the day she filed for D. They left a pile of laundry on the bed in the guest room, our picture faced own in the dining room and little piles of stuff everywhere. At the time I was not home and had no idea he was OM. I'm sure I don't need to tell any of you, the cruelty is unbelievable.

[evas]

H's OW has called me twice. First crying her heart out that I was mean to H by my "threat" to move out of the country with S4.

Second two days ago, saying "Congratulations. He's all yours now. I won't speak to him ever again."

I always make sure to include her in my prayers. She doesn't sound too intelligent, but she doesn't sound mean either. Of course what she is DOING is mean. But she hasn't been mean to me when calling.

[Catching Fire]

Evas you have reminded me of something really important I need to do. I need to forgive OM and pray for him. He is wrong for going after a married woman (my W) but still Christ tells us to love our enimies and pray for those who persecute you.

Thanks, I am inspired.

[LettingGo]

I have NO proof... only anecdotal from my husband.... ow has stalked my FB, though not lately, unfortunately, or she would see we bought a house together, LOL!!!
There have been THREE occasions where my husband took me aside and said "I need to let you know that ow is threatening to come down here... I dont' think she has the balls... BUT...."

WHEN we get hangups on the phone IN FRONT OF HIM, I milk it... it's usually OBVIOUSLY telemarketers or political calls... BUT... I MILK IT and he will ALWAYS react... he REFUSES to get  a landline in our new home... (that ow doesn't know about...)....   whatever.

He does say that OW is "extremely jealous of you"... and she calls me names... in the beginning, the MLCer will protect the ow from your name calling... but later, not so much.... he  will respect your authority... and HE has said "OW is EXTREMELY JEALOUS OF YOU!!!" no duh!!!

[Trustandlove]

I received a text message on my landline from the OW before the current one that was meant for my H -- it took me a while to realise that it was deliberate, as why on earth would she have had that number if she didn't go find it?  It meant that I had her mobile number, but I never did anything with it, nor did I ever tell my H.

That OW bit the dust very shortly afterwards; have no idea what was going on. 

[Synicca]

I have had many calls, texts and FB messages from OW for months...Pretty much since the beginning in 2010.
it got more severe after H broke it off...She texted me tons of times. At one point near the beginning she texted me
and told me I needed to respect her and let my H go...LOL

My H's xOW is full blown BPD...I have gotten threatening texts from her as well, Thank goodness she is 3000 miles away!