[mercury]

Well, I finally had a dream of him.

I was at my grandmothers and she needed to be taken out of the house (she has passed many years ago).  My bil pick her up and put her in the car and took off with my sister.  I got into another car, this car was driven by no one, and In the car I called my sister.  I was telling her how the old H would have took charge and put grandmother in the car like her H did.  And how the car was being driven by no one at 80 mph and weaving between cars to get me to where I need to go, which end up at the hospital.  I wasn't scared at all, though it was cool.  I get to the hospital and his there talking to my sister and her H, I was upset, I did not want them to be his friends.  When he left, I told them that, and when to find him to tell him, my sister is off limits.  I saw him at a door to the outside and made a gester that I wanted to speak to him, he when outside. I followed and he disappeared.  He was fat, in my dream and I though how could not find such a fat guy.

That night, I ask God  to tell me if he was every coming home.  And I think he said No. He is driving the car and will take me where I need to go, but my H has vanished.  I love the fat part through. 

Any other takes on this dream, I'd love to hear.

[xyzcf]

And how the car was being driven by no one at 80 mph and weaving between cars to get me to where I need to go,

I wasn't scared at all,

Ok, I have no idea about dream interpretation but this resonates...it's all out of our control but someone (I'd say God) is doing the driving and we need not be afraid. Interesting where we go to in our subconscious. I hope the dream did not make you scared.....dreams help us to sort out the things that are troubling us and is the deepest state of sleep.

[mercury]

I was not scared at all though the no driver thing was quite fun.  It is interesting where we go to in our subconscious.

[Still]

I had a beautiful dream last night....

I was working on a ladder to fix something in the house. My H just came over and put his arms around me. He held me close and so tight. He said nothing. He just kept holding me. I could feel his warmth and the smell of soap....

In the dream, I was thinking....is this a dream?

....then I woke up.

[Trustandlove]

That is a lovely dream, Still.  Really.

I just remembered that I had one, or a snippet of one, last night, where my H was wearing his wedding ring again....  it just came to me in a flash again.  I can only remember that snippet, that I was fingering it....    I don't remember the context. 

[Still]

That is very nice, T&L.

I often think that God must give us these visions so that we keep on our path. In all of this time, I have only had one dream where my H was in the process of leaving me. With all the anxiety MLC causes, you would think we would have horrific dreams.....maybe some do. I never have.

[Trustandlove]

My 2cents' worth on dreams -- I am not skilled in interpreting them, btw...

I think they help us crystallise our own thinking; show us some clarity on what is right now, what we really want.  They can show us possible futures; I do think they come from within us rather than without.  So a dream that I had where my H basically said "I'll get there, but in my own way", is my own take on the situation rather than a prophecy. 

The wedding ring bit?  Well, as I don't remember the context it's hard to say, but I'm with you in that things like that help keep us on our path.  It's most likely just telling me what I really want....

I've not had horrific dreams, either. 

[watching and waiting]

Freaked myself out this morning.
Woke up dreaming of H trying to reach out to me, to make his way back and OW pulling him in the opposite direction.
I have not had a dream this vivid before.
Strange thing was I couldn't make out OW's face, it was all blurred.
I remember trying to see it more clearly but it just seemed to get more blurry.
Even though i know what she looks like.
Found it strange.
I just wanted to shout out - Let him go you silly B*tch, LOL

HUGS

[justkeepmoving]

Okay, there must be something wrong with me.  The last dream I had about my H I started hitting him with a hair brush and couldn't stop.  How do you interpet that ?

[True to myself]

Wishful thinking!