[brokenhearted]

LearningIamOk ...just heading out the door with my pots and pans!!  LOL

[kikki]

I felt so alone!!!

I felt SO LONELY !!!!!  (Said with a very accusatory tone - my fault of course)

I was SO UNHAPPY, I used to cry in the garden.  (my fault again, that I couldn't see around bushes)

[Anjae]

" The affair has nothing to do with why I left. It doesn't matter."

Yes - script - 'Our bad marriage and me leaving has NOTHING to do with the OW'

Pure script but it is true. They don't leave because of OW and OW does not matter. The MLCer is correct about that one, just does not know he is, or why. 

More script: I'm not good enough for you, you'll soon find someone better that me.

I need space, I need to be on my own. (except you forgot to tell there was OW).

I felt live I was dying, the marriage was killing, I had to leave. I know living and OW were wrong but I was suffocating, if I didn't leave I would die.

[kikki]

Yes - I heard those ones too AnneJ, although at one stage Mr Bursty got more specific -

I'm sorry, you deserve so much more than me, you chose a dud - you'll meet a Dr to be with soon    (a Doctor?)

I need to be on my own for six weeks. 
I stupidly asked if he was coming back home after six weeks - got a panicked look, with psycho eyes, and he shrieked 'I am NEVER coming home'.  He pops in and out all of the time, despite this.

I'm always more here with you, than I am over there with her (huh? - in spirit?  in thought?)

[Anjae]

I'm sorry, you deserve so much more than me, you chose a dud - you'll meet a Dr to be with soon    (a Doctor?)

Doctor = Serious profession + status + respectable. At least I think that is the meaning/idea.

I'm always more here with you, than I am over there with her (huh? - in spirit?  in thought?)

Had forgot that one. At first that one was true for Mr J. He spend more time with me than with OW1.

We're forgetting the classic: I want us to be friends. 

[Ready2Transform]

"So there wasn't that much sex." (Trying to convince me the PA had started just prior to BD, thinking quantity was some sort of concern).

[1Cor.13]

OK, so I cheated..ok?!  I haven't been happy since 2008 

[Phoenix]

5 minutes after BD while I was shaking and vomitting in shock: "Good God, haven't you ever been dumped before?"    "You are overreacting. I am still thinking about dating both of you (me and my friend/OW)."

A few weeks later: "Can't you see we are not compatible?  You are too deep, too smart, to responsible, clean, like to read and connect with people. If anything is deeper than this (holding thumb and forefinger about 1/4 inch apart), I will drown."  (Following that remark, I congratulated H for finding his shallow, dumb, irresponsible, dirty, illiterate, antisocial soulmate).

More of H's proof of our incompatibility:  "You don't eat at McDonald's. The OW and I want to eat fast food, drink beer, and watch funny shows. You want to save the world."  (Shame on me. My bad.)

[Phoenix]

Oh, and these gems:

"If you just understood the huge importance of porn in real life and a healthy loving relationship,  like OW does, this might not have happened." (Followed by bills from sex and head shops )

Said to justify as he left D and me on a holiday weekend to go away with OW: "It's really sad that you two don't have a clue what promises and commitments really mean, like I do." (Apparently not...)

[Returned]

Okay I am having a good laugh here...

one MLCer said you cooked to much, another said his wife is "to clean" (what does he want her to be dirty?) and the other is complaining about you saving the world.

So in order to be perfect wives we must be dirty, understand the importance of porn, not cook, eat at McDonalds and not try to save the world. My what high standards these MLCers have...