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#30: November 01, 2013, 05:29:39 AM
Living with hope, I was reading the last post and I felt sad, I thought oh no it's not going to work out and then it didn't but then it did!!!! Good story telling. How long did this whole journey last for your friend? Do you think your truth dart was a turning point for her? There are a few stories where the MLCer suddenly wakes up so to speak. Thank you for sharing xx
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#31: November 02, 2013, 12:24:30 AM
thats a lovely story lovemy man and a long time but still lovely to hear  :)

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1756.msg263082#msg263082
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#32: November 21, 2013, 02:27:24 PM
Hi all,

Thought this would be the perfect place to post this...

Today on Dr Phil there will be a couple with the husband going through MLC. He left wife for OW, now he wants her back.
Dr Phil is going to try and help them. Should be interesting to see what Dr Phil has to say..

Dr Phil
11-21-2013 Today
On CBS  (Channel 2 in Southern California)
3pm in California. *Check your listings AND...They also rerun it in the early morning hours.

I will be watching. Take car all!
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#33: December 02, 2013, 07:38:38 PM
Warrior Priestess, your post from "With God's Help" really touched me and I felt like this was what I had to do with my husband.  I gave him 30+ days of unconditional love, no questioning his actions, no obvious paranoia, no bringing up conflict, just tolerance and love.  I think it worked.  My husband is no longer having an affair and he is responding to me with love and affection more than he has since we first met.  Thank you so much for the post, I think it is one of the things shared that has saved my marriage.  I love my husband and forgiveness and becoming friends and lovers again was my goal and I think it is coming along great.  Thanks again  :)
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#34: December 02, 2013, 08:16:47 PM
That is so wonderful to hear Bestfriends.
Are you able to share a link to WarriorPriestess' post that you read and felt was so helpful to you?

May things continue to go very well for both you and your husband.
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#35: December 02, 2013, 08:36:16 PM
That is so wonderful to hear Bestfriends.
Are you able to share a link to WarriorPriestess' post that you read and felt was so helpful to you?

May things continue to go very well for both you and your husband.
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1756.msg106009#msg106009

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#36: December 02, 2013, 08:46:33 PM
Thanks so much OP  :)
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#37: December 02, 2013, 11:29:06 PM
Even though my situation is early on...these stories also give me a glimmer of hope for a future with my H.
I thank everyone for sharing

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#38: December 11, 2013, 10:18:17 AM
Beautiful heart~thank you for sharing that! :):):)
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#39: December 11, 2013, 12:28:28 PM
Beautiful Story BH, thank you for sharing.  Since this is close to you can you tell others how your sister acted during this time apart? 
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