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#140: April 15, 2014, 06:30:44 PM
How do I send a private message to my mentor?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#141: April 15, 2014, 06:32:20 PM
Sorry, it's xyzcf.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#142: April 15, 2014, 06:58:10 PM
Hi Thunder,

If you look on the left side, under Xy's  name, posts, gender, you'll see two (sometimes 3) little icons; 1 for view profile and 1 for personal message. Click on that and you should open up a new page from which you can send her a message.   :)
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#143: April 16, 2014, 05:04:28 AM
I no longer have the option to see "posts that I've replied to" in the upper left corner.  I fact, that entire block of options and my name are missing.  Is it just me?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#144: April 16, 2014, 05:17:44 AM
Madmax, I would contact Old Pilot. I am not tech savvy. My name and all the aforementioned options are there.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#145: April 16, 2014, 05:51:39 AM
Quote from: Madmax on April 16, 2014, 05:04:28 AM
I no longer have the option to see "posts that I've replied to" in the upper left corner.  I fact, that entire block of options and my name are missing.  Is it just me?
To the right of the search box in the upper right hand portion of this page is a small arrow

Click on the arrow and those features will be revealed to you.    :) :) :)

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=34.msg165051#msg165051
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#146: April 16, 2014, 06:11:43 AM
Awesome!  Thanks, OP.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#147: April 16, 2014, 08:10:05 AM
Thank you, Fidelle.   :)
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Re: Ask a Mentor 7
#148: April 21, 2014, 02:26:58 AM
Hi Mods

A member suggested in a PM that I ask to join the alt.  I understand from her that it is private and no-one who's not a member can see your posts but would my alt friends see that I have joined?  My H is a FB friend and I certainly don't want him, or most others come to that, to know.  Thanks. x

Edited to remove the alt group name in case anyone shares a computer with their spouse, and may find reference to it here.  The group is private, and it's my understanding that no one, not even friends, can see the group.
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#149: April 21, 2014, 05:47:08 AM
I can't find my old posts. I'm still in my relationship with my alien h. He wants sex. I can't give myself anymore to someone who yells at me. I need to feel loved, respected and cared for not afraid in order to have sex. In the meantime his anger is building toward me about sex. I'm considering ending it just because when he asks me what he can do I say be my friend again and stop yelling at me. He's got serious issues. He refuses to TALK to me. I'm so lonely and I feel ripped off. I thought I married my best friend and soul mate. The man I'm married to now refuses to court me I don't ask anymore. He just yells. That  DOES NOT MAKE ME WANt SEX. Help!
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