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Re: Steps to good mind
#81: June 03, 2014, 02:58:04 PM
Good to see you Albatross :D
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Re: Steps to good mind
#82: June 04, 2014, 04:26:47 AM
Nice to see you here again, Albatross.

What a message you have just shared.  Shakes me back to reality.

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Re: Steps to good mind
#83: June 04, 2014, 06:08:39 AM
Wow, that is some truth.  Finally realizing that is helping me a lot lately.  Thanks Albatross!
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Re: Steps to good mind
#84: June 04, 2014, 06:11:54 AM
Albatross, you have this uncanny way of always saying the right thing at the right time. I too needed to read this, as I spent the last evening wondering what my husband was up to....
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Re: Steps to good mind
#85: June 04, 2014, 08:26:48 AM
So True,
Thanks Albatross.
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Re: Steps to good mind
#86: June 06, 2014, 04:35:14 AM
Albatross,
Thank you for this thread! It came at a perfect time!
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OW - 32 female soldier in his unit
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didn't come home one night, BD next morning, moved in w/OW
I'm not happy, We aren't compatible, lost the spark, you don't like to camp or hike... We have been growing apart for years....ILYBINILWY..... my life was meant to be on a different path...
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Re: Steps to good mind
#87: June 06, 2014, 07:54:20 AM
You are more then welcome.
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