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#30: June 15, 2014, 08:57:35 AM
I also got
 Yes for a time i felt something for you but you killed it.
  If i m denied the kids i ll make another family.
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Put a knife  through your heart and twist it and hundred times, does it hurt, this what my kids feel. Put a second knife through your heart and twist them both a hundred times and this is what I feel for I carry the pain of my children in my heart as well as mine!!!

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Re: MLC script V
#31: June 15, 2014, 10:44:02 AM
But then he left b/c I am such a homebody.

Mine too. Funny thing is that until I got back to Italy, he was THE homebody par excellence... spent his time at home watching tv or sleeping and went out on saturday with his friends. HIs life didn't change at all when I got back. And yet somehow he blames me for it and thinks this new girl will turn things around... well it's not like he ever asked me to go places!

On the contrary I was always travelling... London, Japan, Spain. He was the one who never wanted to come with me anywhere and then complained for never going anywhere! I'm so resentful that he's trying to peg me as the boring one. Excuse me if spending a saturday night out drinking is not the highlight of my life.

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Re: MLC script V
#32: June 15, 2014, 11:00:54 AM
same sh$t, different day from all of them!  My H, now xH, left 4 years ago for his high school GF from 33 years ago at that time...she dumped him after HS when he went into the army and broke his heart.  Two years ago he told me that I was his mid-life crisis girlfriend!  Denial works wonders doesn't it?   He was 33 yo when we met and I was 35 years old.  OK ex,  I'm sorry you feel that way!  ::)
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BD1 12/08 He told me to leave the house for no reason.  I did not leave my house or family.
BD2 3/10 he asked for a D
BD3 4/10 H filed for the D
BD4 5/10 H flew 1400 miles to see OW
BD5 6/10 he walked out w/OW in  tow
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Re: MLC script V
#33: June 15, 2014, 11:36:27 AM
"I wish you would start dating too, that way I wouldn't feel so guilty."
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Re: MLC script V
#34: June 15, 2014, 02:07:37 PM
I got "you're' a very attractive woman but I don't find you attractive anymore...... I'm so sorry I can't believe I said that"

 Then we both cried. That was 3 months post BD and one month before he moved out.
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Re: MLC script V
#35: June 17, 2014, 08:33:15 AM
I had a recent  argument with xW, when she said that I smelt and when she first met me I had very bad BO and I was in the gutter.  If you contrast that to an argument 12 months ago when she said when I first met you, you took very good care of yourself, smelt nice and always wore smart clothes that was part of the attraction.

If I add to that she looked at me and called me a fat b’stard this is after me doing  2 years non stop gym I’ve lost pounds and everyone tells me I’m in great shape.

To be honest they just open their mouths and cr*p comes out.


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Re: MLC script V
#36: June 17, 2014, 03:17:36 PM
While I agree they strongly tend to lie, at times there are gems of truth and useful information in the midst of what they say.  For example:

Genius-Just answer one thing before you call the cops!!  Did X take you to the hospital?
Me:  I'm dialing now.
Genius-AT LEAST HE CAN F*CK!!!  (Yelled 11 times into the phone before I hung up.)

Apparently it was not only me that he was impotent with??
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if people won’t listen to you, there’s no point in talking to people. If they won’t listen, you’re just banging your head against a wall.

Sadly Ive used up all the time I had allotted to spend banging my head on the wall

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Re: MLC script V
#37: June 17, 2014, 03:46:38 PM
As an aside, Genius also went through a period when he was so out of control angry that he would punch himself in the face.  The punches were hard enough to leave bruises and black eyes. 

He stopped that when I suggested that perhaps he should hit himself harder as I was becoming bored with the temper tantrums and theatre.

When he did that in front of his mother, she cried and begged him to stop.  When his sister saw it, she was shocked.   
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if people won’t listen to you, there’s no point in talking to people. If they won’t listen, you’re just banging your head against a wall.

Sadly Ive used up all the time I had allotted to spend banging my head on the wall

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Re: MLC script V
#38: June 17, 2014, 05:16:26 PM
I wish mine would punch himself in the face.  If he needs help with that I'd be more than happy to oblige.
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Re: MLC script V
#39: June 17, 2014, 07:23:56 PM
Lol, TmT! After today, you are first and last in the line up.  :)
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