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#20: July 11, 2014, 08:26:01 PM
Could you please read my thread.

I need some guidance as to how to proceed.  He is in monster and trying to make it look like it's ALL me to the children.  The children are 17-21 years (4 of them).

I just can't think.

Thanks

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#21: July 14, 2014, 01:34:27 AM
Looking for the article that deals with the MLC around the 2 year mark .

I remember reading it and how they are convinced that the OP is the one for them.
Please help.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#22: July 31, 2014, 07:04:22 AM
Has the Hope Stories thread been removed (it was among the 'sticky'? threads at the top of forum, I thought)?  If so, I hope it doesn't mean that HOPE has been downgraded in status!   :(
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#23: July 31, 2014, 08:09:07 AM
I could use some input on my thread as H has brought up the "D" word.  Advice on how to talk to him and if I have said the right things.  Thanks.


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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#24: August 01, 2014, 12:15:08 PM
hi sorry to ask but have posted something on my thread could really do with some advice please x

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#25: August 06, 2014, 12:21:35 AM
Can someone help me through this stage I am going through....my kids go away today and I am dreading taking them to airport and the thought that ow maybe there to drop h off....also this what seems to me like excessive cycling and anger is really dragging me down when I need to be positive to see my kids off....
Thanks. x


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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#26: August 07, 2014, 04:01:54 AM
I have a technical question -  I have just became a subscriber, is it possible to move my recently started thread to the private forum? (probably not...  :-[) Many thanks in advance for your help and time!
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#27: August 07, 2014, 07:29:33 AM
Hello there,
I willtry and move your thread to the Subscriber's side - I am not 100% technically savvy but I will do my bet and let you know how I get on!
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#28: August 07, 2014, 10:56:46 AM
fantastic, many thanks!
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#29: August 22, 2014, 09:38:51 AM
Probably wrong place to post,but I don't know what's happening. After several months if texts,and stopping by at least once every few weeks to check on animals, he would even stay for an hour or two. Now in the last month. Nothing. Maybe a text once a week.

Why the sudden vanisher? I'm spiraling down into deep depression again. It's like being left all over.
Wth goes thru thier minds? :-\
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