For some of my "get a life" (GAL) activities I:
...decorated my house, my way!
...went to that bookstore I always wanted to go to and couldn't
...took classes at the yoga studio down the block (always wanted to try that)
...went to a women's recovery group (made lots of lady friends that way!)
...once-a-week went out with ladies from the group (but if asked, I just said "I had plans to go out" and didn't specify with whom!)
...watched some movies I had always wanted to see (like those oldies he would never watch)
...actually volunteered! Volunteering is SO IMPORTANT because at times I'd feel so depressed or lonely, but working at the homeless shelter and at the nursing home put some stuff into PERSPECTIVE! I didn't have it so bad at all!