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Author Topic: MLC Monster The Oddities of MLC: The Strange Things They Take When They Leave

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So glad I came across this thread. Now I know that it is just normal behavior when they take random things.

Mine took my face wash??? I guess he needs to look pretty for the OW.

He also took some ear buds I had out when he came. He never uses them. He returned them 2 days later.

He took the sparkling wine I like, but left his expensive rum. I've started to acquire a taste for it.  ;D

He hasn't been back to the house for a few weeks now, but after he's been here, I only discover what is missing when I go to reach for it. Oh the MLC'er brain is a messy one!

Nah- that is truly genius!!! Love it.

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I found my waffle maker missing after he had been moved out for 6 months. He didn't even take his clothes, but he took the waffle maker.....
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  • His mlc...too bad for him
but he took the waffle maker.....

Kind of makes sense....
 if his current tw@t-waffle doesn’t work out, he can make some more.  ;)
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FearNot - If you don't want it, rum is my adult beverage of choice.

nah - The tw@t-waffle comment has me LMAO!  We really need a like button, or something for some of these comments.

I left, not my H. But he insists I don't need to take all my stuff with me. Anytime I mention coming to get stuff he's all "You don't have to, it can stay here." One time he told me he had thought about packing up my stuff but he wasn't ready.
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Nah- the tw@t- waffle comment was so perfect!! Bahahaha! Kitty is right we need a like button or something!!

Kitty, if you were closer I'd say head on over and we can take care of those nice bottles of rum on the shelf for him  ;D
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 Isaiah 43:1 " But the Lord says.. Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. "

"It's ok to be scared. Being scared means you're about to do something really, really brave." Anonymous

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I just started saw this thread. Mine did not take anything except an old Tv. I had to pack his stuff up and leave it in the garage. It took him weeks to get it. He especially didn’t want his old clothes. Hard to look 29 when you’re wearing a 50 year olds clothes!!! He wanted nothing that was associated with his old life!!! Me most of all!!!
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I just started saw this thread. Mine did not take anything except an old Tv. I had to pack his stuff up and leave it in the garage. It took him weeks to get it. He especially didn’t want his old clothes. Hard to look 29 when you’re wearing a 50 year olds clothes!!! He wanted nothing that was associated with his old life!!! Me most of all!!!

I had to pack up my MLer's stuff from the house and garage and leave it in front of the garage on the blacktop!  And that was 18 months after he left and the divorce had been finalized.  I still have stuff of his here. 

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These are hilarious...Here's a little rude, not so much what H took..But what he decided to leave when he came over last week.
Did the yard..Noticed a black container on the counter when i got there...Thought aww how sweet they went to lunch before H came over. (puke)
When he left...he left the container in my kitchen...ummm you don't live here...lol clean up...Now for what he took, When I went into my bathroom, I noticed my band-aids were gone...A whole box...lol really? I just bought those...
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Maybe he wants to put a band-aid over his MLC Smiling!
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"And when they ask you about me and you find yourself thinking back on all of our memories,
I hope you ache in regret as the truth hits you like a bullet and you find yourself replying: ""She loved me more than anyone else in the entire world and I tried to destroy her."  He failed by the way. 
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8412(Denjef's thread)

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 Lol now that's funny....
He's gonna need more than just a box!
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