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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Valentines Day
#30: January 24, 2011, 04:43:42 PM
Make it a HAND towel hehehe.
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Re: Valentines Day
#31: February 05, 2011, 10:23:57 AM
So, what do you all think of sending this link?  Listen carefully to the lyrics.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KkUeRPjc-Y

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Re: Valentines Day
#32: February 05, 2011, 11:51:35 AM
Sorry but it anything like that will just push farther away. We have to do nothing most of the time but live our lives.
It's so hard loosing our lover, our best friend and our confidant but hang in there everyone.
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Re: Valentines Day
#33: February 05, 2011, 11:56:53 AM
hmmm, I think it may be time that I pick up my guitar again....
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Re: Valentines Day
#34: February 05, 2011, 11:57:16 AM
I just got a card that wasn't too bad. Something about W being a blessing. Nothing more, no lovey dovey stuff.
I also picked up a box of chocolates. Both will be given in return if something is given to me.
It's like a love parachute! ;)
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Re: Valentines Day
#35: February 05, 2011, 11:58:50 AM
xyzcf, I've got so many guitars around here I trip on em, they don't play themselves! Get back at it.
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Re: Valentines Day
#36: February 05, 2011, 12:03:29 PM
When I got my first guitar at 13, I used to slam my bedroom door when I was upset and sing at the top of my lungs and play really, really hard..my mom could always tell when I was feeling better as the music got softer and slower. The thing is, it worked....but I haven't played in such a long time.

Perhaps I'll pull one out (we have several as well) and play Gordon Lightfoot's "Only a go go girl in love with someone who doesn't care..." Bravenew world could join us and perhaps we could all play together via Skype..I bet there are a few more "folk singers around here.."
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

https://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/chapter-contents.html
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Re: Valentines Day
#37: February 05, 2011, 12:17:05 PM
That sounds more polite than a certain Harry Nilsson song I remember!
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Re: Valentines Day
#38: February 05, 2011, 07:09:25 PM
I'm so glad you started this thread because I've already been mulling about this myself!!

Last year my H made plans to go snowmobiling all day on Valentines Day (sending a direct message to me), so the day before, he brought home small bunches of flowers for our daughters and me.  It was clear I only got flowers because he wanted to look good to the girls.  I think I gave him some of his favorite coffee or something.

I like the idea of having something small on hand just in case it's needed.  I'd rather my H didn't get me anything because it would again be to save face in front of the kids only.  He doesn't love me and doesn't want me, it's ridiculous celebrate the day in any way.
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Re: Valentines Day
#39: February 06, 2011, 01:29:03 AM
Lol, I was thinking (not seriously of course  ;)) that sending H a quick email on the 15th saying, "thanks for the flowers, but I am not sure that it was appropriate to send them under the circumstances" and just sit back and let him wonder if I DID get flowers and if I did, who were they actually from....

With game playing ideas like that in my head, you could be excused for thinking I am in MLC (don't worry, I am not going to do it!)

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