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#10: January 26, 2016, 11:59:44 AM
End od August after a great summer in our new home that we had just purchased in May.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#11: January 26, 2016, 12:23:56 PM
BD 1 april and no it was not a joke
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Re: What month was your BD?
#12: January 26, 2016, 12:37:05 PM
I will have to read that article.  BD was August but affair started I reckon around May of the same year.  His depression although constant throughout our marriage was worse when he turned 40 in the October.

What is quite strange is that while he was with the ow (the incidental) over the four years they always broke up in the sept/oct and got back together april/may time every year.  They broke up permanently at the end of sept 2014.  Interesting.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#13: January 26, 2016, 12:57:32 PM
my b was January in fact it was around now 37 January and I was wondering why I was eeling a little down not as bad as it use to be ut still think about it .
 
he left in the beginning Decemeber to go on holiday as he had the last few years with our friends husand and left me a note telling me this would e the las time he would go away for a week as he couldn't bear being apart from me for so long and he would never stop telling me how much he loved me for the rest of our lives

the ay he walked back through the door I knew smething was wrong with my husband of 22 years  then a month later in January after being the total opposite that he had een he dropped toe bomb he had met a woman on holiday and he just had to do this ???
my life as I knew it was blown apart   :(
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#14: January 26, 2016, 01:52:36 PM
I'd like to know hoe  pose to a holiday or special occasion was your BD. Mine tried to arrange it for our anniversary/Valentines Day, but I short circuited that.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#15: January 26, 2016, 01:54:49 PM
BD1--December '11 (really November but i found out about it in december)
BD2--OW confirmed--late March '12

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Re: What month was your BD?
#16: January 26, 2016, 01:57:46 PM
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#17: January 26, 2016, 02:04:34 PM
February (eleven months ago), by phone.

After that, H vanished for five months (and when he showed up, it was only because he had no choice). What a friggin' bastard.

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#18: January 26, 2016, 02:29:55 PM
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Re: What month was your BD?
#19: January 26, 2016, 02:35:39 PM
First BD Feb 2013 affair started Dec 2012
Second BD Dec 2013 after not trying at all and continuing with affair
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