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#20: January 26, 2016, 03:13:32 PM
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#21: January 26, 2016, 03:26:29 PM
July
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Re: What month was your BD?
#22: January 26, 2016, 04:22:45 PM
March 2015.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#23: January 26, 2016, 04:53:54 PM
BD1 ("My feelings for you have changed") July 2011. Actually left August 23, 2011. BD2 when the OW was confirmed was November 27, 2011. He absolutely cycles with the seasons though, and will ramp up in the spring with a lot of manic behavior that peters out by the end of autumn.

It's interesting though that my mother left my dad August 4, 1994, and my dad left my stepmom on August 23, 2003 (and there's no way Hoss would have remembered that to align it). I very much believe there are not just biochemical reasons we sway with the seasons, but spiritual ones, too. It's odd to me my birthday is the Autumnal Equinox, OW's is the Summer Solstice. Coincidence, or Hoss has some serious transition issues (y'think?!?!).  ;D

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Re: What month was your BD?
#24: January 26, 2016, 05:30:36 PM
I don't know when BD was. For me BD is the day Mr J left, October 15 2006
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#25: January 26, 2016, 06:33:56 PM
March
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#26: January 26, 2016, 07:20:08 PM
End of December - Merry Christmas!
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Re: What month was your BD?
#27: January 26, 2016, 07:27:25 PM
Mine was September. Jed Diamond has some fascinating information on male depression. His book "saving your relationship from mr mean" was very instrumental in my sanity in the early days. It described the sudden change and mood swings that I was experiencing. He's actually my IC now and it is helpful to have someone who understands MLC, respects my desire to save the relationship but still focuses on me.
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#28: January 26, 2016, 07:34:06 PM
August
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Re: What month was your BD?
#29: January 26, 2016, 07:57:11 PM
Mine was May but he started going crazy already around March not coming home, etc.
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