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#10: December 12, 2016, 07:33:23 PM
strength, this is the new thread. The first thread can still be found at:

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8451.msg550967#new
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#11: December 12, 2016, 07:41:13 PM
Following.  Denjef, way to go, congrats on your test!   ;D
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#12: December 13, 2016, 04:39:00 AM
Hi Den!  I'm sad to hear you aren't feeling well, sometimes it just seems like it all happens at once when it comes to illness!  At least it didn't affect you test though, congratulations!  Hugs.
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#13: December 13, 2016, 06:13:19 AM
Attaching.

Congratulations.
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#14: December 13, 2016, 06:44:14 AM
Hey Den!

Way to go on the test

I hope that you feel better soon. Rest, warmth... you know the drill....
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#15: December 13, 2016, 06:57:34 AM
Hi Denjef!!  Congratulations on the test ! Awesome job ! Sorry to hear you're feeling under the weather... hope you get well soon.
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#16: December 13, 2016, 06:58:05 AM
Congrats! You're awesome in more ways than one!
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#17: December 13, 2016, 12:30:09 PM
So happy you are back Denjef.  Really miss all of your advice.  I have been posting but see nothing from you.  Hope you come back to the threads.  Praying that school is almost over for semester and that you are feeling better. 
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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#18: December 13, 2016, 12:45:33 PM
Attaching, DenJef ...

I have been following your story ... I hope you keep posting.  I am sorry you are not feeling well.  As everyone else has said, congratulations on your test.

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Re: Navigating through the fog- Personal Experiences 3
#19: December 13, 2016, 02:09:09 PM
Attaching. Congrats on your exam!
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