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#10: March 02, 2011, 08:27:28 AM
Last night over IM/Chat:

W: "If I said f/u i feel sure you would be offended."
Me: "Good night. Be at peace"
W: "f/u"
Me: "Love you too. Night"
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#11: March 02, 2011, 08:54:13 AM
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OUCH!  Wow, you are good though.  Wow.  I'm always amazed at what some people here can do in terms of keeping their cool.  Inspirational.
Glad you liked my ditch story.  I mean, this is a rational person, right?  He must have been thinking of how many times in my 20 year office job, I've been asked to step outside and help the ditch diggers.  WTH.

Moving Forward, what is up with the inability to use names, titles and so forth?  I noticed my H was very reluctant to call me his "wife" or even use my first name for a long time.  Hearing your H can't use his sister's name is REALLY bizarre.  Wow.

Still, I assume that means you haven't done anything wrong since 1999?  GOOD for you!
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#12: March 02, 2011, 09:28:42 AM
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I noticed my H was very reluctant to call me his "wife" or even use my first name for a long time.

Since MLC started, my H has only used my first name (and forget any nicknames!!!) a few times.  He has used more of like a "hey you" if trying to get a response if I don't know he is talking to me.  He has barely referred to me as his wife, only a couple of times on the phone on some business type call that I have heard and even that has been months.

Anyone have any ideas about why that is?  Makes me feel like I am not a human being in his eyes.

Can't think of anything funny that my MLCer has said, other than things that are tragically humorous. :(
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#13: March 02, 2011, 09:33:59 AM
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other than things that are tragically humorous

Our MLCers are tragically humourous and tragically humourless too.

My H never uses my name (well sometimes in emails, but not all the time and never in person). That IS odd.

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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#14: March 02, 2011, 09:36:32 AM
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My H never uses my name (well sometimes in emails, but not all the time and never in person). That IS odd.

Another way so many of them are similar.  Guess it is in their MLC playbook as a good tool to use to mess with us.

Some of the things my H has said are funny in that they make NO SENSE but tragic in that they are just sad. :'(
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#15: March 02, 2011, 10:11:35 AM
I don't have as many good ones as I've read here. Probably because of a low energy clinging boomerang.
The best one I've heard was while we were holding hands for our Valentines Day Sunday date thingy.
W says "Our hands don't fit together, never did". Now I'm a big guy, but they fit the D4 and The D8?
I think I'll start referring to her as "Spot" from the old d!ck and Jane books.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#16: March 02, 2011, 10:25:57 AM
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"SPOT"......LOVE that!  :)

This lack of using our names or wife/husband must be depersonalization for them, don't you think?
There can't be any other reason...I guess....I'm glad to know I'm not the only one because it was very apparents and VERY weird.

I also notice H will see something on TV that mimics his behavior and he has no idea he's said/done the same thing to me.  There is NO reality in this thing whatsovever.  It's almost stunning isn't it?
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#17: March 02, 2011, 10:38:15 AM
My W doesn't have the name problem.

It would seem to me, that they don't know who they are, and so they have trouble saying who you are.
Are you their spouse? or maybe ex-spouse? maybe Satan? or what?
So, they just avoid it.. and when it comes up.. they don't even know what to say, b/c they really aren't sure.
I don't think it's an insult, I think they just really don't know.

"Hey you! You can't even dig a ditch, can ya?"
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#18: March 02, 2011, 10:44:23 AM
OK, mine still says "hon" and "babe" and introduces me as her husband. What's THAT mean?
They are all different I guess.
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Re: Funny things my MLC has said
#19: March 02, 2011, 11:04:49 AM
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This lack of using our names or wife/husband must be depersonalization for them, don't you think?
There can't be any other reason...I guess....I'm glad to know I'm not the only one because it was very apparents and VERY weird.

I also notice H will see something on TV that mimics his behavior and he has no idea he's said/done the same thing to me.  There is NO reality in this thing whatsovever.  It's almost stunning isn't it?

I thought the same thing about the name issue!  REALLY glad mine is not the only one. 

My H has made some references recently to kids he knows whose parents' marriages are not intact and how that adversely affects them, about behaviors in others that HE is doing, etc. and he clearly does not seem to see the connection either.  Crazy, crazy, crazy.
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