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#10: May 10, 2017, 03:46:33 PM
Could someone who has seen MLC through please look at my question on my link

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#11: September 08, 2017, 03:30:36 AM
He called me up on my  mobile phone about 20minutes ago but I didn`t answer and can`t understand that he didn`t it again on the landline as he knows I`m always at home working at this time of the day.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8985.msg615171#msg615171

Should I call him back or let him sweat????? 



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Begin of P`s MLC: around Spring 2010 with breaks inbetween when he behaved like his pre MLC self.
OW: YES , he`s living together with an old spinster who just happens to live up the road.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#12: September 08, 2017, 03:46:10 AM
Sorry about posting the question here, have put it on my own thread now.
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Me: 56 (when he left in April 2017)
MLCer: 57 (when he left in April 2017)
Together since: 1986
Married: No
Children:No
Begin of P`s MLC: around Spring 2010 with breaks inbetween when he behaved like his pre MLC self.
OW: YES , he`s living together with an old spinster who just happens to live up the road.
Animals: 1 doggie, belongs to both of us but MLCers has abandoned him too.

"Surrender to what is, let go of what was, have faith in what will be"
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#13: October 06, 2017, 08:49:13 AM
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9366.130

post number 138, sorry to put this here but I need advice, anyone
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#14: October 23, 2017, 04:11:25 AM
   Can someone please link my old threads to my knew one.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#15: October 23, 2017, 05:16:36 AM
Quote from: bluerose on October 23, 2017, 04:11:25 AM
   Can someone please link my old threads to my knew one.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#16: January 22, 2018, 06:22:14 AM
DO mlcers know they are projecting? my h called me a coward ( don't even know why) . does he realize he was talking about himself?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#17: January 24, 2018, 07:57:22 AM
Quote from: Keep believing on January 22, 2018, 06:22:14 AM
DO mlcers know they are projecting? my h called me a coward ( don't even know why) . does he realize he was talking about himself?
It is not unusual for MLC'er to project things onto others.
It is very possible he is doing this with you.

Whether he realizes it or not is another story, that is hard to say.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#18: January 25, 2018, 12:21:42 PM
What does "attaching" mean?  Is there something specific to do to attach, or does it just mean that someone's following your thread?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
#19: January 25, 2018, 12:52:45 PM
Quote from: MCSINME on January 25, 2018, 12:21:42 PM
it just mean that someone's following your thread
YES - this ^^^^^^^^^^^^
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