[How long since bomb drop?]

How long since bomb drop?

0 to 1 years

32 (36.4%)

1 to 2 years

32 (36.4%)

2 to 3 years

16 (18.2%)

3 to 4 years

5 (5.7%)

4+ years

3 (3.4%)

Total Members Voted: 86

[kie]

My bomb drop was 17th September 2008, 3+ years ago

[Chrysalis]

Mine was 6 September 2010.

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[trusting]

Thirty-one months ago tomorrow. 

[OldPilot]

Merged with previous thread.

[missybuddha]

mine has never said ilybinilwy
he has said I've served your needs for 20 years etc etc. He's told the children we love each other but we make each other suffer.

[Anjae]

4 + years ago

Husband left home mid October 2006
BD late October 2006

Now I'm on the begining of year 6 of this MLC adventure.

[WarriorPriestess]

BD was May 2010, when H said he wanted to break up, although he changed dramatically and turned cold and standoffish towards me one month before that.

Anger phase started almost exactly 2 years prior in 2008, followed by overt depression phase 2009 up until BD.

[brokenhearted]

One year since I threw him to the curb !! No idea what this even means... So he was done and never coming back??
 six months since he called  me at 3:00 am telling me not to worry (I had called earlier in the evenIng thinking something had happened to him or his dad) told
 me he was on a date, it was great, so much fun, and I should try it??!!

[LeaveThePastBehind]

One year since I threw him to the curb !! No idea what this even means... So he was done and never coming back??
 six months since he called  me at 3:00 am telling me not to worry (I had called earlier in the evenIng thinking something had happened to him or his dad) told
 me he was on a date, it was great, so much fun, and I should try it??!!

So sorry he said that to you. I think a lot of them suggest that we find someone else.


As for me, it's been 2 years and 5 months. Wow. I've been rounding it off to 2 years. Hadn't realized it was that long.

[brokenhearted]

Thanks StarGazerGirl for the kind thoughts. It's hard to believe that a person would call their partner of 17 years at 3 am to tell her he is on a date?!  This is no kid, my partner will turn 60 this June! 
Just as crazy, when he told me how much fun it was, that I should try it, he even gave me the name of someone he works with. Someone I have known for years, since he played high school baseball. Someone I would consider like one of my nephews about 17-20 years younger than me. I was so shocked I didn't know what to say. I consider this young man and his adorable wife like my own kids!  Then he says Joe (the kid) is divorcing his wife. I am shocked because they seemed like such a great couple. Instead of feeling sad for them and what they are going through my partner just laughs and suggests I go out with this kid?!
The man I loved would never have said such a thing and would have felt bad that this young couple was going through this.
This alien thought it was funny, was having a great time on his date and thought this was the answer for me. I felt like I had the wind knocked out of me. I felt betrayed, scared, lost beyond words who was this man I thought I knew who could hurt me so and laugh?