[Rising Phoenix]

Emailed the twat to say divorce papers ok to send and if I didn’t hear from him regarding the remainder of his belongings I will need to get rid of them as work to be done on shed roof. I also wished him well for his future and I hope it is everything he hoped and dreamed it would be. Ow Facebook response according to daughter within minutes was “ life is amazing when you don’t surround yourself with pieces of s**t”.
So what do I do now? I am sick to the back teeth of it. Xx

[nah]

So what do I do now?

Haha.... smile and go on with your day knowing that you taking the high road is obviously driving her insane.

[ChrissYAH]

"mine' is also a vanisher, my daughter and her boyfriend went to see a comedy show this evening, my D's boyfriend saw the loon there, the min he saw my sil to be he ran off and disappeared. was def there with his hag, why disappear if you haven't done anything wrong? 

[nah]

why disappear if you haven't done anything wrong? 

Exactly.  That's his problem.

[Treasur]

Stay away from FB even secondhand, RP? Too many crazy folks use it instead of having a real life...

[Rising Phoenix]

I don’t do face book but the kids do. They try to have a peek and see what their father is up to but mainly they got awful quotes. My sister want to comment but I won’t let her. No point as that what the Slapper wants is a reaction from me and I won’t give it. Xx

[needinput]

Emailed the twat to say divorce papers ok to send and if I didn’t hear from him regarding the remainder of his belongings I will need to get rid of them as work to be done on shed roof. I also wished him well for his future and I hope it is everything he hoped and dreamed it would be. Ow Facebook response according to daughter within minutes was “ life is amazing when you don’t surround yourself with pieces of s**t”.
So what do I do now? I am sick to the back teeth of it. Xx

The OW just confessed that she is a POS and put her sick state of mind on a display. Everytime I read something like this coming from the OW's mouth initially shocks me and makes my blood boil that such people exist on this planet but then if she sees nothing wrong with contributing to destroying a family then there is nothing surprising about her words either. These OWs are mentally sick - a nice match for our MLC H's. I am confident one day when the MLCer "wakes up", he would want to puke. I highly doubt the MLCer will achieve his eternal delusional happiness.

I used to have so much anger after BD because I felt the OW stabbed me (the innocent wife) in the back and I felt like she was ripping apart one of my organs but I couldn't protect myself in any way. After she found out I knew about her, she kept manipulating my H to divorce me but in very subtle ways and my H was oblivious to her actions. I felt so helpless. I never hated another human being in my life. I had so much hatred towards her I wanted to cause her pain. I felt that all the pain she caused me, she deserves to feel one day.

I am glad I never contacted her while I was furious because she needs to be treated as nonexistent. The relationship with the OW will explode by itself one day but it takes time. Do not acknowledge her existence.

[Rising Phoenix]

I have acknowledged her in the past but not this last 10 mths other than to say I don’t blame her any longer as she believes the lies he has told her and was in the dark more than me. I placed it firmly on him. I do blame her aswell as it takes 2 to tango but was not giving her the satisfaction of letting them know that.

My sil has said not much I can do about her posts and ignore. Easier said than done when I can’t stop kids looking. I try to just laugh it off when kids say something. S15 says it’s cyber bullying and to get my solicitor to send a letter but I don’t want to as she will then have the reaction she craves.

Just need be patient and get to mediation and see what he has to say for himself.

Sil has offered us a holiday in her caravan so that is good and she has not spoken to h for 15 yrs as he holds a grudge for a long long time!!

He has been informed the kids want to change their surname so he won’t be happy about that but that is their decision. I will go with whatever surname they want which at the minute is my maiden name and they already have that as double barrelled surname. S15 says he sees no one with the surname of his father so why keep it. He has a point. Xx

[Shocked]

https://youtu.be/h-rRgpPbR5w

I’d like to hear all your reactions to this YouTube video.

[Rising Phoenix]

I think it’s goid for lbs but I don’t think it would get through to a mlc brain xx