[Nas]

Interesting. My curiosity is piqued.

[Shelly7435]

Nah.. Very interesting.  I would be so curious I would have had to answer.

Nas. You rknow how you feel like your Mlcer is living a great life... I do too.   I'm the casualty. And I fell as tho no one cares.

[nah]

Hope everything is ok with your daughter?

Not really worried about that... if it was a big deal, he would have contacted my mother, son, brothers, sisters, etc by now.



Sorry I kept you guys hanging, I had a minor emergency at work.

Butt-dial?  I doubt it.

99.9% sure, it's most likely about the book.  He must have heard by now, I mean, he heard about my wedding in record speed.  Now, I haven't heard a peep from him since he married (sept 2017), I sent him one Father's Day message, other than that, nothing.  We both had birthdays, nothing.  College bills from son sent to his house that he can't afford, nothing.  Me getting married, nothing.

Yeah... It's gotta be about the book.  Very curious why no message though, something like, "You're a big meanie, now everybody knows I'm a big fat liar."  Well, everybody already knew, but he does like to blame his own guilt for his own actions on me, so this is the perfect opportunity.

So, if nothing else I'm honest.  When I saw his name on the phone, I started to shake.  Thought that was in my past but I guess since I haven't heard from him in awhile, my nerves unexpectedly bubbled up.  The difference this time from the past is I really have zero desire to have contact with him.  In the past I would play the "rule of 3" game, more to make him wonder than something for me, but this time, I really truly wish he would just go away.

No such luck.  Vanishers always come back when you least expect it.  Like a oozing rash on your wedding night. 

[BrenM]

 Vanishers always come back when you least expect it.  Like a oozing rash on your wedding night. 

Haha....interesting..do you thinkl he might've read it?   Maybe he wants to give you his personal review 😳

[Milly]

Interesting Nah! I'm curious like the others. I wonder why he would be calling you about your book, as in not to congratulate you or anything, just like he was silent when you married. But I'm wondering if something in your book triggered him. Clearly something pushed him to make the call when nothing had for a year. So he's still watching you.

[nah]

My best guess?

I never mentioned to him or anybody else that he was on a sugar daddy website and transferring our money, while we were married, to young girls.

Hey if he’s embarrassed or doesn’t like the story, maybe he should have behaved better.

[Thunder]

Oh my gosh Nah, that's in the book???   LOL

Yep, it probably has something to do with the book.   

Oh well, you didn't lie.  0 : )
I can't wait to read it all. 

[Nas]

If the girl has read the book (and my bet is she would out of morbid curiosity), then the leaver is in big trouble. He. Will. Never. Hear. The. End. Of. It.

[Milly]

Very well put, Nas.

[nah]

If the girl has read the book (and my bet is she would out of morbid curiosity), then the leaver is in big trouble. He. Will. Never. Hear. The. End. Of. It.

and I guess you are probably right.

Believe it or not, when I first started writing the book, it was mostly about him, but I purposely shifted away from him and onto me, but let's face it, of course some of his antics are going to be in there b/c what he did affected me.

I also, purposely, kept her very low on importance, as that's how I feel about her, but again, sometimes they were there, like my father in laws funeral, etc

Now if I was her, Hell yeah I would want to read it, and I'm sure there are many surprises for her.

Most importantly, all the conversations we had over the years, the meetings, the fact that it was him that dragged along the divorce, etc.  I doubt very much he told her any of those things.  Maybe I lied?  Well, ask "Peggy", she knows the truth, right down to The Leaver not showing up at court, Peggy was there.  The sugar daddy website is a google away (and I have the screen shot, plus credit card receipts)

I wrote this book for me, and to give others like me hope, but if they have a problem with anything that is in the book, again, maybe they should have behaved better.