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#40: April 27, 2011, 03:50:43 PM
HB,

I would really like to give you my own personal THANK YOU also, for all that you've done here.  You are indeed very special, and all that you have written has helped me, and others immeasurably. 

Your insights and your descriptions of the stages for the MLCer, and the LBS are incredible.  Since I have also been at this in one stage or another for the past 11 years, I am in a position to say that you are spot on with everything that you say.....course you know that but doesn't hurt to hear it does it?  It helps so much to put it all into perspective.

I just want to say, thank you, thank you, thank you.  You have such a gift and you ARE such a gift to all.
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#41: April 27, 2011, 11:07:44 PM
The final piece of advice that I can give is to develop the gifts each of  you will receive ongoing, as a result of this trial; the still small voice that is also called your Intuition, also known as the voice of God is there for a purpose and a reason.

It is one of the most important gifts you will ever receive..and it will stand you well long after this trial is finished.

Learn to recognize that voice; and use that tool to your advantage. :)

May God be with ALL of you as your progress along your individual journeys; and know the crisis, just as any other trial you've gone through in your lives has purpose, meaning; may you all have lives filled with learning, change, growth that will eventually lead to wholeness, healing, happiness and a life filled with joy and peace.

Listen to the people here that are ahead of you; they've been where you are; and you'll find as you go forward and see clearly what they tell you you'll see and learn at a later time, is the absolute truth.

Be patient with yourselves; Rome wasn't built in a day; neither will the crisis resolve overnight; time is the one thing you'll have; use it wisely.  :)

Above all, take care of yourselves and your families.

...and on that note, I'll take my leave.  :)

Much love to all of you,
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#42: April 28, 2011, 08:47:19 AM
HB, I hope you see this...

Thank you for being there, for speaking your mind even when we don't like it, for showing us the way to pave the way.

Wishing you health, happiness and peace.

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#43: April 28, 2011, 03:18:27 PM
HB, I too hope you see this. Thank you! I am soooo happy to have caught the tale end of your amazing insight which I am 100% sure comes from God. My first post here was a PM message to you and true to form as everyone says here, you responded with wisdom, kindness and most importantly, honesty. I've battled this MLC for almost 3 years and gathered a lot of puzzle pieces but your insight has brought my puzzle together. Your "creation" of the 6 stages is nothing short of amazing and in some way works for all. Thank you again Hearstblessing, as I too wish you Health and Happiness! 
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#44: April 28, 2011, 04:03:19 PM
Oh HB,
me too, I hope you are able to see this, I want o thank you for all your advice to me, I treasure the advice and the 'talking to' that I deserved. May God continue to bless you and know that your words to me were taken to heart and helped me see certain aspects of myself that I wasn't seeing/accepting on my own.
I have a lot of your advice on file (jornaling files) and I often go back and read more nuggets of wisdom that had escaped me before.
Hugs HB!
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#45: April 28, 2011, 04:04:19 PM
HB has taught me how to trust my inner voice. It's been all along there, but I was scared to let go of her hand and trust what I'm hearing until recently. It's amazing what has come through for me this past month.

HB is a wonderful, giving, and gifted woman, loved by all. She has helped me through my darkest moments and she'll always have a special place in my heart...
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#46: April 29, 2011, 10:07:57 AM
There were many people who crossed my path that I never forgot; simply because they had such an impact on my life.

I do realize that I'd said and do say things very often that people didn't want to hear; but you know what?  There were things I didn't want to hear, either; but they were said anyway; and when I thought them through later on, I realized that what was said was RIGHT for me....at the time the truth dart was shot, however, I was too angry to see it.  :)

I was watching the Royal Wedding a little while ago; and I hope that William and Kate will be very happy.

There's no chance they will "miss" going through MLC/MLT; but I can hope that when they face this time; they will make good, sound choices; making changes that don't impact and hurt each other.

Once again, take care of yourselves, learn to trust yourselves, and most of all; speak the truth to each other in love, supporting and helping one another.

Gone again. :)

Love to you all,
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#47: April 29, 2011, 12:24:19 PM
HB, I am relieved to see you post! I was wondering if you were blown all the way to Oz!


I have told you before, in all seriousness, that you are an earth angel. I was reading something by Doreen Virtue about a description of earth angels and it fits you to a tee. You have the eyes, ears, voice, and heart of an angel. Thank you for carrying us on your wings. Love to you! (and Bandit too!)
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#48: April 29, 2011, 12:29:11 PM
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HB, I am relieved to see you post! I was wondering if you were blown all the way to Oz!

No, actually, the tornado went around us. :)

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I have told you before, in all seriousness, that you are an earth angel. I was reading something by Doreen Virtue about a description of earth angels and it fits you to a tee. You have the eyes, ears, voice, and heart of an angel. Thank you for carrying us on your wings. Love to you! (and Bandit too!)

I remember that conversation, LGO....all I know is that God works in mysterious ways, His wonders to behold.  :)

I'm OK; hadn't gotten blown to Oz; and Bandit is fine. :)

Gone again. :)
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#49: April 29, 2011, 01:38:49 PM
Just to follow up on what we are all saying and feeling.  HB helped me to trust myself again and to be brave.  I really was so very lost when the BD came, and struggling alot.  I realize that I have a lot more strength than I believed I have, and I am going in a good direction.

HB will always be in a special place in my heart.  She has been a light in a very dark time.  Now, it is time for us to say thank you, God's speed and we wish you peace and good health, HB.  We will miss your words of wisdom, but you are right, we know what we need to do, and we can look to each other for support. 

With love,
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