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MLC Monster Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#230: June 28, 2011, 11:34:09 AM
PW1..... still trying to wrap my head around your husband's choice of OW.... I can't.

There's always a bright side... at least she can't get pregnant by him.... :-\
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#231: June 28, 2011, 12:20:16 PM

I cannot imagine a man getting involved with a single pregnant women and leaving his wife and family for that?
What is he thinking?  That is just mind blowing.   :o :o :o
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#232: June 28, 2011, 12:32:29 PM

The other bright side is that you KNOW he's crazy.  I still sometimes think my H is sane and he really has found true love and I really was THAT bad.  I wish my H's affair down was more obvious.  Never though I'd be jealous that my husband didn't have an affair with a pregnant, trampy addict... How sad is that?!
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#233: June 28, 2011, 12:38:03 PM
I agree!  He really must be in MLC.  I sometimes wonder if my ex really should have stayed with his old flame all those years ago, as it all seems to be still going strong and I am treated almost like a stranger.   His daughter and her new boyfriend are staying with them next week so I am sure the full charm offensive will be operating!  Strangely though, apparently neither of them can remember why they broke up thirty years ago (and didn't even stay in touch).
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#234: June 28, 2011, 12:38:57 PM
  Lisalives PW1  That is so true. I sometimes ask my bestfriend "Does my hair look good like this? Does my lipstick? How clean is this house? I'm trying to make a good impression on my vicodin addicted, vodka drinking,rolaid eating,almost unemployed H who is shacked up with a Bowser ow."     How crazy is that? :o :o :o
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#235: June 28, 2011, 12:43:07 PM
Maybe it's US that's crazy.... for wanting these wierdos in our lives at all!! All they seem to do is piss us off every time we see them anyway.... I'm currenty in pissed off mode at how utterly STUPID my husband's BEHAVIOR is... notice I said BEHAVIOR... he's so CLUELESS that being SO IN LOVE WITH ME and GONNA GET RID OF OW SOME DAY are in direct oposition to one another... what f'd up movie is he starring in?
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#236: June 28, 2011, 12:55:01 PM
 LG Remember what Stayed's H said. It's NOT OW It's the allure of a NEW LIFE ::)
 that's why when we focus on OUR new lives they look across at us and think "Hey wait a second. What's she doing now???" :o :o :o
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#237: June 28, 2011, 04:05:18 PM

Yes Mamma Bear ~ I think thats it.  It's the new life they want.  My H talked about missing out on things.  I said like what. 
He said going to Harley functions ect..  At that point he hadn't abandoned us nor did he have the Harley.  2 weeks later
he did though.  I really feel like me and our S cramped his life style that he was so craving.  To be free.  Even though
he has OW and has since last fall, H could never go away on his new Harley with us.  Our S definately would have
been in the way.  BD was in February, affair started last October or during the summer months.  Gee, wonder when
it's all going to start wearing off and not be so much fun anymore.   ::)
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#238: June 28, 2011, 04:31:57 PM
LG, LL, HB...IKR!  He's been with her for a year, but apparently when they broke up for a couple months (she was in residential rehab) she went back to ex-BF (and baby daddy #3) and got pregnant. My ex still went back to her though.  He had a vasectomy 9 years ago so at least he won't be getting anyone pregnant! I couldn't make this sh#t up, LOL!!! BTW she was in the picture before BD
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Re: Questions about the affair/OM/OW II
#239: June 28, 2011, 05:28:46 PM
 So I've been reading fast here what's she pregnant for now a couple of years? :o

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