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MLC Monster Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#70: December 21, 2013, 11:50:37 PM
Well that sums it up nicely.
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#71: December 22, 2013, 12:35:06 AM
Somewhere here there is the information about the author; does anyone remember where that was?

Also, would it be possible to "sticky" this list?  It is something that I think many of us would fine useful to refer to again and again....
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#72: December 22, 2013, 01:11:10 AM
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Somewhere here there is the information about the author; does anyone remember where that was?

I can't find the original link, but it was written by someone called Trusting on the Divorce Busting forum.  I remember she said that her H was in crisis, and she was a mental health care worker and adjusted the common signs of depression to fit MLC.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2177869
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Signs of Depression During MLC
#73: June 24, 2014, 06:22:22 PM
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1646.0

I'm re-posting this for the newbies and highly suggest all the newbies go to the bottom of the site page, and read posts in the archives, you will find a world of information there you may not find on story threads.

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Re: Signs of Depression During MLC
#74: June 24, 2014, 08:13:30 PM
Thank you for reporting this. I had ran across it once a few weeks ago and felt I gained so much by reading it.
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#75: June 30, 2014, 11:45:33 AM
Watched this video today.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WHvV55IpAxk

Good reminder for all of the newbies.
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#76: June 30, 2014, 12:44:30 PM
I shook my head "yes" to every single one.  Why does the rest of the world think MLC is a joke?  If MLC is real i have no doubts that my H has it. 

It's funny, the 30 years i have been with my h his mother had every article and remedy for every pretend disease that she could find.  Why is it now that all his family members just shrug their shoulders and say oh well people get divorced???
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#77: June 30, 2014, 02:23:45 PM
Great article, and strangely comforting when you see it all in black and white.
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#78: June 30, 2014, 02:31:27 PM
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Re: 30 SIGNS of MLC / DEPRESSION
#79: June 30, 2014, 05:22:54 PM
My O My!!! Thank you for this article. I think my H has all 30 of these nailed and continues on his replay. Like Groundhog day. That's what I call it. Everyone here says its a long journey and I know I've been in the depths of it since at least 2010 and maybe prior. I am putting together the reasoning behind detaching. I know  I can't take anymore...let it go!
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