[Mamma Bear]

 Watch out NB.  Thundarr might get D'd bc he likes Britney Spear's Music  
     Nb.... Why don't you call your next thread "WHO"LL  Let The Dogs Out?"      whoo? whoo? whoo?   

[NewBeginnings]

MB - Hey, thats a good one, LOL  I need to start a new thread.

NB

[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

"Are you happy?  Because I don't think that I am."
"I am sick of the same old thing, day in, day out."
"I am stuck, I am trapped, I'd rather be in prison."
"Let's face it, you will survive just fine without me."
"I'm just not cut out to live here, I'm a country boy."
"I've felt this way for years, I just kept it to myself."
"I feel like I am going crazy."
"I can't do this anymore.  I'm done."
"We're just roommates.  I don't feel married."
"I think we should separate.  This ain't fair to either of us."
"I'll make mistakes, but they will be my mistakes to make."

[NewBeginnings]

"I'm not happy, your're not happy"        Really? 
"We used to be friends, now we aren't"
"She's a friend, a roommate"
"It has nothing to do with the sex, nothing!"
"I'm so angry inside"
"We have nothing in common"

[Wed2Him?Whatever.]

"I'm not happy, your're not happy"        Really? 
"We used to be friends, now we aren't"
"She's a friend, a roommate"
"It has nothing to do with the sex, nothing!"
"I'm so angry inside"
"We have nothing in common"

Yeah I love them insisting we couldn't possibly be happy.  Yes I was happy, pre-BD.  My H told me that he was angry but not with me, he was "angry at the world".  He followed up by saying, "That's the last time I'm gonna say it." It was the ONLY time he'd said it.     They are in such a fog when they say all the junk they say.  Pure GARBAGE!

[Thundarr]

Hey Mamma,

Correction - I don't like Britney's MUSIC.  LOL

Also remembered my W telling her cousin who had expressed sympathy for the D that it was the best thing ever and "(Thundarr)'s a therapist.  He'll know what to do" as a a way of saying I would not be hurt by her decisions.

My all-time least favorite though is "I'm the happiest I've ever been."  Gee, getting married, giving birth to 3 kids, buying a house and going on several vacations doesn't make you as happy as abandoning your family?  Maybe that is the secret to happiness.  Don't think so.

[With Gods Help!]

When i told my h he was committing adultery and that GOD would make him pay for his sins......he replied well he cant i don’t believe in GOD i said well i do just because we cant see him doesn’t mean he cant see what your up to i said one day he will make you reap what you sow...........then when he found out some man wanted to take me on a date.........he said you cant do that we made our wedding vows in front of GOD he said GOD will make you pay i said no he wont........ for one you don’t believe in him and for two i would divorce before having a R with anyone i said just because i may consider going on a date doesn’t mean im as desperate as o/w and will screw him on the first night...i said i have pride respect and dignity for myself..........he didn’t know what to say cos he knew o/w slept with him on the first date......... showing how much she respects herself and how needy and desperate she was xxxxxxxxxxx

[Mamma Bear]

  Did I mention when he said      "I just was bringing my amps and guitars over her apt. bc we were   friends. I asked if her husband would mind all this crap at their apt . Ow said 'Oh I'm not married! I'm single' "    Whamo! Then everyone's clothes flew off and it's true love.   Thanks for that H.    Such good friends with her he thought she was married. OK?
          Meanwhile back at the ranch he'd told me for 15 years " It took me 35 years to find you I   am  never going to let you go."

[Anjae]

Ok, I think that will do. Second option will match the covert depression. So odd the people he hangs around do not see how bad he is...

They must do ........  they just think they've always been moody and tetchy ...........  they don't hang out with people that knew them before usually
From what I heard today from our one mutual friend, the 'mask' has been slipping off a lot lately (in public)

For what I know, everybody thinks husband is fantastic, always up beat and such a great guy. He hangs around many people who did not knew him before (nor know me) and some that did knew us before but somehow end up with very regressive juvenile lifestyles, just like my husband's one. But even these people that knew us, only knew us, but for one or two, from social events, and many only from a short period befofe he left. Don't think he is moody or tetchy in public or at work. So, unless he is like that with OW, I have no idea what he does with monster (moster was still there last March when I spoke with him on the phone), the moon or the crankyness.

But my SIL does know her brother. Still, she does not seem to mind with his lifestyle, she even joins in it sometimes. And that is weird. Unless she is also going through some sort of MLC or transformation.

LG, in my real FB (not the one on the alt) I post positive things and things I like, but I do tend to not say much where I've been or with whom. I'm reserved on those matters by nature, just like with pictures. And I have it closed except for people that are my FB friends. Of course, since I have SIL on my FB, husband can see it if he wants.

[kikki]

AnneJ - your H must be very good at keeping his 'mask' on???