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#40: May 11, 2011, 06:10:49 AM
I concur LG, they are funny as hell and so are the schmoopies!
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#41: June 05, 2011, 03:21:44 PM
      OK.. So what about things they say that indicate they might be jealous of whatever it is we are doing?  Example: This is funny. My H says "I can pick up the Ds from school since you have that big meeting with the CEO "   I say"OK Thanks"   Later he asks me if he "Proposed to me"   :o :o I say "Why would he do that?"  He says  "Because you look so beautiful"
   I also love when they see something new around the house (flat screen TV) and comment "Oh, good for you guys OVER HERE"   (you guys is HIS FAMILY and OVER HERE IS HIS HOUSE) ::) ::) ::)
  Still I love the "We're moving to a new apt "(H and OW) it's downstairs and bigger from old apt. Ds tell me after 5 days of moving nothing is done and he was laying on the couch watching a video w/ them at her apt looking sad and thinking a lot. (In the old apt where hardly anything is moving)      Sounds like all that MLC FUN I read about on the Validation Thread. 8) 8)
  He is soooo HAPPY he is face planted on a couch w/ his Ds over there insteadd of over here. That sounds like FUN and JOY. 8) 8)  (while wondering if my CEO is proposing to me) ::)
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#42: June 05, 2011, 10:06:32 PM
My H moved out tonight.  While he was enjoying "his" weekend with the girls (well...one of the girls, the other refuses to spend any time with him), he kept harassing me with insane texts.  One was all about how he hopes we can "move forward with grace and dignity" (two words he's never used in his life) and that he "still loves me".  My reply - "you don't divorce someone you love".

We have this new visitation schedule thing worked out and documented by our lawyers.  It just started this weekend.  Another of his texts was this gem.  "Why do you want to keep the girls from me?  I'm not a molestor or an abuser!  I just love my kids!"  My reply - "I'm not.  I'm honoring our visitation agreement".

Sometimes I try to imagine what it would be like to have his brain, and I just can't.  Anyone I tell about the divorce is shocked because H seems so happy and normal,  but they have to really be tortured having such a disfunctional mind don't they?  Or maybe they're so disconnected that they really are able to be happy while causing pain and destruction all around them.  Who knows.
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#43: June 06, 2011, 04:22:35 AM
Faith..They are miserable! They are not having a good time at all.
       I am not good at copying or moving anything but read what Heartsblessing wrote under the thread Validation that the MLCer is Having Fun     (it's startd by Tsunami I think)
       Ever since I read that and printed it out to put in my wallet) I feel so much better. It's GREAT. :)
       They are depressed. They can't be HAPPY.   

       Now whenever my H is around for Touch n' Go or on the phone I think about what HB said. I can see the MASKS she is referring to. He wears a different one for different people(OW,Ds,LBS,)

       Makes me feel better. It's also funny. H is soooo HAPPY now he's biting his nails(never did that before) and eating Rolaids out of his pocket.(large bottle) For all the happiness :o 8)
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#44: June 06, 2011, 04:47:39 AM
Faith,

Those strange texts are really something else, aren't they?  I really wanted to get a ringtone for him with the Twilight Zone theme because it's what I thought of every time that I got those texts.  They were so random.  I had to reply sometimes with "was that text meant for ME?"

It became quite the challenge, like decoding!

Watch out for when those masks start slipping, it's when the real fun begins....NOT!
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#45: June 06, 2011, 07:48:14 AM
Mine even forgets gifts that he's purchased me while in MLC. Our anniversary was 20 days post bomb drop
and h gave me a very pretty pair of earrings and I was wearing them for our son's graduation last weekend
and he said, nice earrings, where did you get those?  :o Seriously?  I said you gave them to me....
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#46: June 06, 2011, 09:02:22 AM
    Whatever..  Should've said a squirrel gave them to me ::) 8) :o
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#47: June 27, 2011, 07:48:56 AM
Bumping up for the Newbies again..... should be required reading... especially if you doubt it's MLC, LOL!!
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#48: June 27, 2011, 07:56:26 AM
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This script is so true. Contacted H about money for the cable bill-his friend has a box on my account. Told him how much was owed. His response-"we always collect $ amount"  Who is the "we"?  We haven't been a "we" since he moved out as far as I know . Blow my mind-completely clueless :o
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#49: June 27, 2011, 08:15:09 AM
  I like the quote from H at BD in Feb 11  "I never cheated on you when we were together. We haven't been together since Sunday."    :o :o :o :o
  And just last week H said "I never cheated on you!"
  I said "You are having an affair!"
  He smiles blinks his eyes and says "Oh yeah, Right. "
  Priceless 8)
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