[faithful with Love]

Here are somemore:
Its best for the both of us if we divorce but we can stay together.
I married you to make you happy
she is just a friend
I know she is a ow but she needs my help
I have helped her alot with her issuses
all you do is b*tch at me that is why i am never here...(and i didnt b*tch he was on his way out and feels guilty)
I'm unhappy
How do I look..would the woman like me?
I never meant to hurt you not the intention at all...(however he knew and knows it hurts me)
It will end one day (2 yrs later)
I am not seeing her anymore.... yeah I was with her.. I think
Im not sleeping with her anymore just a friend... if you look in my phone you will be hurt....
We were never happy
I dont love you anymore
I do love you
My mind is spinning all the time
All the stress, i just want it all to end...(but keeps texting his ho)
She sees other ppl she is moving on with her life... (right)
In the future we will...
We have no furture
Im screwed up I could just cry
I dont know why I do what I do
you the bi**h
you so stupid
Im always gonna go out
I want my freedom
I been with you all these it about me
the kids will be fine
the kids know because of you (nevermind ow came to the house)
She is a really good person
She would be great to our kids
She never talks bad about you or our kids

[Foxberry]

LG,

How right you are....my H has many issues from childhood that have been left undealt with......and I feel now have all come to the fore.... thank you for your insight....     I have suspected this for years.....he always refused to talk about them or do anything about them, denying there was anything wrong any way...

Foxy xxx

[Foxberry]

More phrases that may resonate:

I chose happiness over loyalty
When I said you know I love you - his reply "I know you do"
I want to be your friend
I've always loved you but not enough to try again
Who knows where I'll be in 4 week, 4 months, 4 years
I feel suicidal I have 2 crises going on in my head
She makes me happy
I enjoy her company
I can talk to anyone but you
You belittle me
You're argumentative and I've had 6 months of peace with OW
You talk in riddles
Why don't you say what you mean
You can ask me anything you want, but you may not like the answers


Unbelievable!!!
Fox xxx

[LettingGo]

I know she is a ow but she needs my help

This one takes the cake. 

[phoenixwoman1]

My XH said some variations of the same:

I love you, but not the way a man should love a wife
I still love you (a couple of random times over the past year)
I'm gun shy [about reconciliation}, I don't want things to be the way they were
OW is the nicest person I've ever met
The kids will be fine..they just want both parents to be happy
You pushed me away
OW has her problems, but I guess everyone does

[faithful with Love]

OMG... This is to funny....They all sound the same...I mean the SAME....
He left at 10 pm to see other woman...
Said... your not mad are you?? 
I said you know your married to that cell phone. All you do is text...His reply...
I'm married to someone else.
Wow.....okay buddy....
Got home ar 11:30 and said..
You wait up for me baby?
I was up but said nothing pretended to be sleep.
What a jerk.

[Stillpraying]

I typed this yesterday but lost it when I hit 'post'.  So here is my second attempt:

I was just infatuated with you and shouldn't have married you.
I don't think I love you.
I don't want to be married to you anymore!!!
I'm sorry but I don't love you.
You are such an amazing woman and I am so blessed to have you.
A counsellor at work told me the first 2 years of a relationship are just infatuation. (Yes....?  so...?).
Those $96 of flowers (4 days before my b'day) were a 'thankyou' for the woman I bought S9's bike from (Bike was bought for $80!).
I'm sorry I lied.  I was flirting with someone at work and it was her birthday.  We both respected that I was married.
I'm sorry but I don't want to spend the rest of my life with you.
She (OW) is the nicest caring person I've ever known and she is innocent in all this.  I hoped you would grow to like her.  It is not the same person I bought the flowers for.
She has been a friend for a year and been very supportive of me, as have all my other 'friends'.  I confided in her about OUR marriage and when I told her we separated, she made her intentions known.
Our marriage is OVER!!!
You don't know how to love a man like a wife should becuase you never got that from your father (who passed away nearly 6 yrs ago).  Hope you get that from God!!!!
Our Marriage is Over!!
We (OW and H) are aware of the kids emotional needs.  When you find a new relationship, you need to ease them into it, just like we did  (After 2months of leaving kids are taken to her place)

[phoenixwoman1]

Faithful with Love, my XH said nearly the same to me.  We had been "seeing each other" about once a week for a couple of months last winter then suddenly showed up one night to pick kids up with OW driving his truck   The next time I saw him he said, "Are you mad at me or something?" WTH!?

[LettingGo]

StillPraying... your husband is ALSO bats*** crazy, BUT, I believe FaithfulWithLove's husband's declaration "I know she's a ow, but she needs my help" Still trumps all.... sorry you can't be the winner here, LOL!!

[Stillpraying]

This won't trump FWL's but I have a few more to add I've had nearly 2 years off it so it's slowly coming back to me :

If you would just stop doing the same things all the time and be more loving to me.
We must come from different planets!
I will pay half your rent after we sell the home. 
Don't touch me!!!
You're a Nutcase!
You need help!
Don't judge me!
I treasure the time we dated and our weekend away (1 mth before he left).
We have too many arguments and I grew up with that and don't want my kids to have to. (Excuse for leaving as said to my brother).
I don't want another relationship as I always stuff them up (Week later with OW!)
I want to see a counselor to make the best of this relationship (with OW)
I always get into relationships too quickly
We don't have any common interests.
The children are my priority.
I have too borrow money and eat at the soup kitchen because of the bills and rent I have to pay (I paid the rent!!)