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#50: June 27, 2011, 08:17:31 AM
Yes, Mamma.... I've gotten that one also..... "It's not cheating if we're separated!" Ummmm..... would it be cheating if I did it to you and we are separated? Yep... thought so. It's like that movie "Hall Pass"... they think if they move out, it's a "hall pass" to do whatever they want with no repercussions.
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#51: June 27, 2011, 08:30:36 AM
  Another Gem         Me: I just can't believe that YOU did this to us. You of all people. You were so kind.  It doesn't make sense. That's all I'm sayin'
                            H:   I know.  I would've thought YOU would've done this to ME. :o :o :o :o :o :o
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#52: June 27, 2011, 08:30:53 AM
My H said to me back in October 2010, that he was still wearing his wedding ring!! as though I should be
grateful that even though he was having an affair that he was wearing his wedding ring...
I said "Oh does that make it ok then when you are with her then if you're wearing your wedding ring?"   no response  ::)

Then again at Easter I said, "I see you're wearing your wedding ring"...H's response to me, "I don't wear it all the time"..
That was nice wasn't it......it really hurt...... wedding ring? does it matter? no, its the intentions and actions that matter not
whether he wears his ring or not.... Maybe H thinks he's Mr Frodo from Lord of the Rings!  and if he keeps it in his
possession it will ward off evil  :-\    Hasn't worked so far, he's still with the wicked witch of the east....

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H - still a Vanisher - Maybe he will realise one day what he's lost...but after years of heart-searching finally it doesn't matter any more! I never thought when I was devastated in 2010 after 28 years of marriage - I could be happy again...but it's true - I'm done spinning my wheels - I learned to walk on the sunny side of the street and leave the shadows behind me. Brand new life for me & it feels good to be free of all the drama. No such thing as MLC - just men/women who run away & are too cowardly to talk about their issues, just cheat with other cheaters! Don't waste your gift of life on these pathetic spouses - live life & enjoy...don't waste your life wondering why...you will never know...Trust is precious don't waste it on people who don't know know what it means...
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#53: June 27, 2011, 08:38:06 AM
   Foxy,    Wicked Witch of the East had a House fall on her :o :o :o  Karma Bus?
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#54: June 27, 2011, 08:47:58 AM
If ONLY  a house would fall on her!  ;D    Just thought of another one I didn't understand he used to say all the
time inbetween his sobbing and crying phases..... apparently my Son and I "belittled" him showing emotion?  I have
belittled him for years......  :-[    My H has been emotionally retarded for years! so no belittling of emotions as he never
showed any..... The only things that my S and I showed to H at Easter was concern for a man who looked broken in
every way.......

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H - still a Vanisher - Maybe he will realise one day what he's lost...but after years of heart-searching finally it doesn't matter any more! I never thought when I was devastated in 2010 after 28 years of marriage - I could be happy again...but it's true - I'm done spinning my wheels - I learned to walk on the sunny side of the street and leave the shadows behind me. Brand new life for me & it feels good to be free of all the drama. No such thing as MLC - just men/women who run away & are too cowardly to talk about their issues, just cheat with other cheaters! Don't waste your gift of life on these pathetic spouses - live life & enjoy...don't waste your life wondering why...you will never know...Trust is precious don't waste it on people who don't know know what it means...
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#55: June 27, 2011, 09:19:44 AM
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that he was still wearing his wedding ring!!

Fox mine said that as well, "I never took my wedding ring off" - as if the fact they were upfront about him being married made it better. Truly they are bonkers.
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#56: June 27, 2011, 09:41:56 AM
Amen to that  ;D

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H - still a Vanisher - Maybe he will realise one day what he's lost...but after years of heart-searching finally it doesn't matter any more! I never thought when I was devastated in 2010 after 28 years of marriage - I could be happy again...but it's true - I'm done spinning my wheels - I learned to walk on the sunny side of the street and leave the shadows behind me. Brand new life for me & it feels good to be free of all the drama. No such thing as MLC - just men/women who run away & are too cowardly to talk about their issues, just cheat with other cheaters! Don't waste your gift of life on these pathetic spouses - live life & enjoy...don't waste your life wondering why...you will never know...Trust is precious don't waste it on people who don't know know what it means...
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#57: June 27, 2011, 11:01:12 AM
The ring thing gets me (however we dont wear ours anymore) but he use to say... I dont take off my ring when I leave the house.... Really then why is it not on your finger and in your pocket???  :o oh yeah it must of slipped off.
Now I get we arent married... Hey could you please tell my wife that.... All within minutes.....
Ummmm oh im your wife when needed... lol.....
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Cant you see im broken my soul is gone... you dont see it but it is there....as he is texting ow.... Up real broken arent ya, feel real bad about it all.....Dahhhhh.

I have hundreds and they all fit the manual.....
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#58: June 27, 2011, 11:16:17 AM
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apparently my Son and I "belittled" him showing emotion?  I have
belittled him for years......

Fox..... I suspect this is an issue from childhood that he's projecting and trying to work through... a little boy not allowed to show emotion.... food for thought... it's typical.
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Re: Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#59: June 27, 2011, 11:35:43 AM
H: Sometimes, things just end.

concluding sentence in an email. Talk about being left with a case of the "Why´s" on my part!
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