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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#20: November 12, 2010, 12:25:08 AM
rolls eyes  ::)

I need to make me happy for a change

I want to live a life without responsibilities

I  cant face what i have done

I  am being selfish for a change

I  have ruined everyone's lives
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#21: November 12, 2010, 12:39:10 AM
The ones that stuck in my mind:

'I didn't leave the kids, I left you'

'You controlled me for 20 years'

more recently h. told D16 that he thought '2 months was enough time for everyone to have moved on and accept OW ......'
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#22: November 12, 2010, 01:52:37 AM
I got the two above!!

I was also told, after he had left, that if I'd looked after him better .......... none of this would have happened.

And....

'there's too much pressure'
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#23: November 12, 2010, 02:40:15 AM
Yes, I got the "I left you, not the kids" as well....  very near the beginning. 

I also got, about 3 months in, when I said that I had known he had been unhappy at point x, he said "then why didn't you do anything about it then?!  As if I hadn't tried like crazy....
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#24: November 12, 2010, 02:47:59 AM
Wow, T & L. I had similar to that. H told us he didn't see anyone trying very hard to stop him leaving. WHAT????? :o :o :o :o
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#25: November 12, 2010, 02:50:51 AM
"God gives us free will."
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#26: November 12, 2010, 05:22:28 AM
I love you but it just isn't enough

I don't know
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#27: November 12, 2010, 10:13:22 AM
I've been unhappy for x, y, z years (the number constantly changes)
I just want to be happy
I can't be married anymore
You are so controlling
OW/OM has nothing to do with this
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#28: November 12, 2010, 10:20:37 AM
I'm recognizing more:

I don't know. (D12 said this is Daddy's punch line)

I've been unhappy for 4 yrs, 2 yrs- finally settled on a long time.

This is not about OP.
 

 
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Re: The Script our MLCer reads from
#29: November 12, 2010, 10:40:16 AM
ILYBINILWY

I love you like a sister.

Ive been unhappy for x,y,z, years

I'm not coming back

we can still be friends

The kids will get over it

To the kids: I love you both, I love your mum, its just.......................



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