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#30: October 21, 2013, 02:28:23 AM

C/o Sunny - OW and emotional blackmail including OW becoming pregnant!
http://gettinbetter.com/blackmail.html

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#31: October 21, 2013, 11:42:59 AM
Wow S&D - that article on borderlines and OW is actually rather scary!

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#32: October 23, 2013, 09:24:26 AM
Quote from: justbelieve on October 16, 2013, 02:48:35 AM
Hi Songanddance
As requested................................ :)

http://www.mysticmamma.com/lunar-eclipse-full-moon-in-aries-october-18-2013/

WOW...............that says it all for me. H and I came to a head on the 18th; things have shifted in both of us. Everything seems to be up in the air but I see it as a positive; I think we have both let go of a lot of expectations which I hope will lead to a new relationship.
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#33: November 07, 2013, 02:38:52 AM
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#34: January 03, 2014, 01:09:02 AM
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4162.msg257849#msg257849

Just reading across the threads and came across this. 30 signs of midlife crisis depression.  Thanks to Weeping Willow and Sassyone
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#35: January 04, 2014, 02:50:45 PM
This is from the DB site.
Recipe for success in dealing with MLC
I needed this tonight!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=566433&page=199#Post566433
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#36: January 05, 2014, 12:06:38 AM
Booboo - thanks - very helpful re-reading all these things again.  Very useful when I am seeing my Mlcer today.
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#37: January 05, 2014, 01:01:00 AM
Thanks so much for this thread song and dance! I've got a lot of reading to do tonight and am looking forward to it. It made me remember so e of the articles from this website I read before I arrived at hs and how it lead me into affirmative prayer and my journey with god. I hope it helps:
http://www.rekindlelane.com/main/
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#38: January 05, 2014, 05:32:25 AM
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/simplyred/yourmirror.html

Heard this on the radio today - Simply Red. Look in the mirror baby. Read the lyrics and see the connections
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#39: January 05, 2014, 05:47:37 AM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p00y4c3h

Here's another one from radio 4 (BBC) 3 min clip on the other woman. One of the women being interviewed and wrote about it having been the OW albeit for a very short time says that it was not the relationship that kept her being the OW -she says it wasn't really a relationship - but her fantasy about being The Woman.   Bazinga!
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