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#90: August 20, 2013, 08:05:44 AM
HI Sorry to post on this but I cant stop thinking about the things my h said in my texts the other day (please see my post I not good at putting on there )  when i have read my other texts just before that as he was due back at the house for work (obviously now on sick) he said to me he wanted me to pick his tablets up (i didnt as this is what i always did for him when we were togethere as husband and wife ) so I got I see you didnt pick my tablets up for me? Ps i dont know why the thought that i could talk to you about things woould ever enter my head , I now realise the way you behave , I never want our paths to cross again, I cant believe that the way I feel but i do! there are things I want to take with me but i will take them when i can (bearing in mind last July he told me he had moved then decided he wasnt because he could tn afford to ) crap... i also need to search all of the house for the camcorder (he knows I have this ) You will very soon get a FINAL proposal for settlement and if you cant agree to that we have no alternative than to go to court.  I have received NO Post at ow house and have told you DONT touch my stuff GROW UP!!  Also you want to take things of mine tit for tat (I hadnt taken anytning) IS that how you want to play it Pathetic (because i didnt reply)

I then get the texts that i poste on my thread , i really am struggling to detach at the moment I am reading articles and things but I cant stop thinking what is happening and I hate the thought of him being away with her.. is it replay is he liminality is he coming out of the turnnel ..please help me

I will respond on your thread.

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http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3714.msg238297#new
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#91: August 23, 2013, 06:35:46 AM
Need as much support and wisdom as possible.  Legal separation and divorce issues and dealing with an irrational man.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3824.0;all#lastPost

Thanks in advance.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#92: August 23, 2013, 03:33:37 PM
Hello everyone,

Can I please ask for some advice on my thread, I feel like I need to go no contact but that it will widen the chasm even further. All advice greatly appreciated.
Thanks a lot
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http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3625.new;topicseen#new
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#93: August 24, 2013, 08:10:22 PM
Need advice. Posted on thread

 http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3753.0

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#94: August 25, 2013, 08:41:08 AM
Looking for some thoughts on my thread.....

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3475.60

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#95: August 25, 2013, 11:05:08 AM
Just wondering who if anyone on here follows rejoiceministries.org. And has anyone ever gone to the bible study there. I like listening to everything but there is no place to ask questions like on here. Like the decision I have to make on my post about the card to send.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#96: August 25, 2013, 12:42:37 PM
I need some advice here at end of tread:
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3615.0

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#97: August 26, 2013, 07:13:21 AM
Would someone be able to look at my last thread and just advise best course of action?  Thank you.....

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3860.msg239862#msg239862

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#98: August 26, 2013, 09:42:22 AM
Quote from: Disneyme on August 25, 2013, 11:05:08 AM
Just wondering who if anyone on here follows rejoiceministries.org. And has anyone ever gone to the bible study there. I like listening to everything but there is no place to ask questions like on here. Like the decision I have to make on my post about the card to send.

Disneyme,

I think it would be a great idea to go to a Bible study there. I would if I could! You are right that you can't really ask questions there - they encourage that we ask the Lord. That is something that I have learnt along the way, in the beginning, I didn't know how to do it, nor did I think that God would answer. I have learnt that it is listening for the small quite voice and immersing myself in the word. Not easy at all when my mind is running at  hundreds of miles an hour!

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Re: Ask a Mentor 6
#99: August 26, 2013, 01:57:01 PM
Posting here to tell the most people. When my dad died I'd get fortunes in the cookies that always went with what was going on with me. So today, the job ordered food and I picked a cookie. I said dad what do you want me to know?  The fortune said "there are no shortcuts to any place worth going".


I think it is the message for all the LBS for the day.
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