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#40: October 20, 2013, 10:00:42 AM
will have to read that article again..may be more to it  than meets the eye
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Re: Something for Men II
#41: October 20, 2013, 10:06:02 AM
Definitely  ..I tend to agree with the word at the very end.
No.
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Re: Something for Men II
#42: October 20, 2013, 11:55:32 AM
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Re: Something for Men II
#43: October 20, 2013, 11:58:06 AM
HA HA HA  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

So what do YOU suggest???
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#44: October 20, 2013, 05:02:47 PM
well..if they can't tell the difference between caffiene buzz and love or arousal..we are all doomed..on the other hand Starbuck's popularity is explained
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Re: Something for Men II
#45: October 20, 2013, 05:20:31 PM
 ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D OMG!!!!

Hey they can get 10.00 for a cup of coffee if they wanted too!
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#46: October 20, 2013, 05:44:43 PM
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

More importantly do you know what YOURS is?

 I found for me they changed over time. The book is great! I'm not sure what's available on the website.

CAN take the mystery out of the whole "mind reading thing" if you want to communicate it to someone who's open to it in a HEALTHY relationship. ( Whatever that is  ;D ;D ;D)
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#47: October 20, 2013, 06:42:30 PM
I would gladly pay money to not have to be a mind reader. Because I stink at it.

On the other question about can women and men be friends. The article had some interesting points. Now here's the question. Since I've been married — and frankly well before that — I thought I had friendships with women. But I sort of understood it was almost an unbalanced friendship. But it wasn't necessarily all unbalanced to one side or the other. It ebbed and flowed. But there are things i've gotten out of friendships with women that I could clearly not get out of friendships with men, and vice versa.

So what I see is it's good to a diversified portfolio of friends.

In It, what is this whole "healthy relationship" you speak of? Truly a unicorn.  :)
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Re: Something for Men II
#48: October 20, 2013, 06:47:29 PM
Well... you did notice I ended that with ( whatever that is) ....Correct?

So how the hell should I know? ;D ;D ;D ;D
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There are two ways of spreading light:
Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.
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Re: Something for Men II
#49: October 20, 2013, 07:03:24 PM
I just tell people I'm retired...
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