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#80: February 14, 2015, 07:01:04 AM
All set. It worked.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#81: February 16, 2015, 02:23:00 PM
can I have a mentor?

Edit - Added to list, answered on your thread - OldPilot
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after he’s through this crisis, wait five years, take out a wooden paddle and whack him on the ass for doing this to you!
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#82: March 02, 2015, 08:04:16 AM
I've had a lot happen and could use some words of wisdom. Page 9 starts with my Friday night...end of page 10 is what we've texted this morning. Would just like to know how to proceed...and if this will be the end of things between us. TIA

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5968.80

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#83: March 06, 2015, 06:25:20 PM
I mentioned in my thread  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6217.0  that last night I slept on the couch and tonight I'm contemplating sleeping in my D's room since she's at a sleepover.  Does this seem like a good idea, or am I just going to bring back the Monster?

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#84: March 12, 2015, 11:39:47 AM
I think I might need a new mentor  ???

Edit - RCR is aware of this, JAG is still looking in on you and my suggestion is to keep posting. - OldPilot
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#85: March 14, 2015, 11:56:22 AM
Could someone please read my post? My h never really left, seems a lot better. Ups & downs seems a lot like himself but still spends most of his time in our garage.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5687.msg406054#msg406054
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#86: March 15, 2015, 07:02:17 AM
If somebody has time to share advice and feedback on my current problem with W, I would be grateful for your advice...
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5185.140

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#87: March 17, 2015, 04:21:06 PM
Started a new thread, and posted a conversation we had today and would like some feedback as to whether I said the right things or too much. And also would like to know what to say if it comes up again, because I know it will. Thanks!

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6282.0
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#88: March 17, 2015, 07:28:37 PM
Could someone please give me some feedback on my thread.
I met my husband today and unfortunately it didn't go as "light and easy" as I had hoped.
Quote from: Airmid on March 17, 2015, 12:24:11 PM
I am going to post the update on the meeting my husband today.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#89: March 24, 2015, 01:27:13 PM
I don't know how to link my thread to this.. I have written on thread. Need advice about last couple of post

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