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#50: November 07, 2014, 06:34:20 AM
I asked this question a few times on my thread and never really got an answer so I would appreciate any thoughts about this:
We have custody court coming (it's been an ongoing very rough battle) and the judge ordered a psychological evalution for me, my kids, and my h! I have nothing to hide with this evalution, but

 I'm really wondering how a MLCER will do on a physicgocial evalution?? Kids therapist has told me he is emotionally dead but I'm wondering if ANY of his personality change will reveal itself in this test?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#51: November 07, 2014, 06:54:16 AM
I asked this question a few times on my thread and never really got an answer so I would appreciate any thoughts about this:
We have custody court coming (it's been an ongoing very rough battle) and the judge ordered a psychological evalution for me, my kids, and my h! I have nothing to hide with this evalution, but

 I'm really wondering how a MLCER will do on a physicgocial evalution?? Kids therapist has told me he is emotionally dead but I'm wondering if ANY of his personality change will reveal itself in this test?

It would really be impossible for any of us to know.  Some MLCers go through counseling and are validated by the professionals that treat them, others are more transparent in their dealings with others (my xH usually takes a few months before most normal people can make the connection that something is 'off').  Just a hunch, I think what your kids say will probably be the biggest indicator.  Your H may keep his mask in place while talking to someone, but the kids may be able to express the change in your H and how it has impacted them even more convincingly.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#52: November 07, 2014, 07:27:38 AM
Can you please tell me how to change my color to purple and also how to put all my info on the bottom of my posts like the one right above such as my age, his, how long we've been together, how long we were married etc?
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#53: November 07, 2014, 07:44:27 AM
how to put all my info on the bottom of my posts like the one right above such as my age, his, how long we've been together, how long we were married etc?

Go up to profile - then click on forum profile, change or enter what you want and save.

The purple part read this first

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=22.0
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#54: November 07, 2014, 08:32:40 AM
OP I also just wrote and update on my thread that was pretty long and when I clicked "post" it gave me a message up at the top in red and said something like....your post has posted but you may want to go back and edit it?  I don't see it on my thread.  Please tell me it's somewhere in cyberspace on the link and hasn't been lost?
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#55: November 07, 2014, 08:53:37 AM
OP I also just wrote and update on my thread that was pretty long and when I clicked "post" it gave me a message up at the top in red and said something like....your post has posted but you may want to go back and edit it?  I don't see it on my thread.  Please tell me it's somewhere in cyberspace on the link and hasn't been lost?
You can try clicking the back button, many times and see if you can regain your post, other than that no - it is lost
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#56: November 07, 2014, 05:11:59 PM
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#57: November 07, 2014, 05:23:03 PM
Your request was passed to OP & RCR.
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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#58: November 13, 2014, 10:49:55 AM
Could anyone tell me which work of C.G.Jung deals with MLC? Many thank in advance!

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Re: Ask a Mentor 8
#59: November 13, 2014, 02:09:06 PM
OP I also just wrote and update on my thread that was pretty long and when I clicked "post" it gave me a message up at the top in red and said something like....your post has posted but you may want to go back and edit it?  I don't see it on my thread.  Please tell me it's somewhere in cyberspace on the link and hasn't been lost?
You can try clicking the back button, many times and see if you can regain your post, other than that no - it is lost

In case that ever happens again, it usually means someone has posted on your thread while you were composing your post, so it's giving you a chance to scroll down and reference it if you need to make changes.  If you don't want to and your post is fine, just scroll down under that red part (your composed post should still be under it as though it hasn't posted yet), and hit the "Post" button again, and it should finish the job.
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