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Discussion Age crisis hit your spouse
OP: January 14, 2016, 08:07:27 AM
I'm just taking a survey here.

What age was your MLCer when BD happened?

Mine was:

Male - 46
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#1: January 14, 2016, 08:20:24 AM

Male - 44 (a month before his 45th birthday)
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#2: January 14, 2016, 08:20:43 AM
Wife was 38
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Me 45, W38
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#3: January 14, 2016, 08:23:07 AM
Mine is Male 44 (acts 17)
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Me - 43
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#4: January 14, 2016, 08:29:37 AM
Male 45
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#5: January 14, 2016, 08:31:08 AM
44-gotta love those mid forties.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#6: January 14, 2016, 08:35:10 AM
I'll skew the results - W was 29.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#7: January 14, 2016, 08:37:57 AM
Male - BD just before his 41st bday, but anger started about a year earlier, just before his 40th bday.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#8: January 14, 2016, 08:39:29 AM
Mine was Male 49.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#9: January 14, 2016, 08:47:33 AM
50- he's always been in crisis.
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