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#40: January 28, 2016, 08:07:58 AM
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Re: What month was your BD?
#41: January 28, 2016, 08:20:28 AM
UM, you're so funny.   :)  Baby bomb...Atomic bomb.  LOL
Unfortunately this time we are asking the ladies or previous male MLCer's (like MeNow) to give us their BD month.

It's to prove or disprove what I've read about male testosterone and seasons when it is at it's worst.
They claim between October and April are the worst months.

But thank you and j for chiming in.   ;D  We'll have to get a male topic or gender neutral one for you guys next time.
Unless you have noticed if different times of the year effect you more than others.  That would be interesting to hear.


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Re: What month was your BD?
#42: January 28, 2016, 08:25:21 AM
Quote from: Thunder on January 28, 2016, 08:20:28 AM
UM, you're so funny.   :)  Baby bomb...Atomic bomb.  LOL
Unfortunately this time we are asking the ladies or previous male MLCer's (like MeNow) to give us their BD month.

It's to prove or disprove what I've read about male testosterone and seasons when it is at it's worst.
They claim between October and April are the worst months.

But thank you and j for chiming in.   ;D  We'll have to get a male topic or gender neutral one for you guys next time.
Unless you have noticed if different times of the year effect you more than others.  That would be interesting to hear.

Oh! Sorry! I didn't start at the beginning and see the preconditions... 20 lashes with a wet noodle for me...

However, FWIW, it would be interesting to see if the BD from the MLCW's happened at or near the onset of Menopause like mine did... Then you could have more than a causal link to a hormone imbalance that is gender non-specific... 
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Re: What month was your BD?
#43: January 28, 2016, 08:40:48 AM
No wet noodle.   ;D

I think the difference is women can go into menopause at any time during the year.  It's certainly not a seasonal thing.
This article was talking about some evidence that men's testosterone levels could be seasonal and may have something to do with this MLC.

But we could do a survey maybe about menopause and MLC timing.  It sure effected me negatively at the time.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#44: January 29, 2016, 03:50:59 AM
Ok so far ladies we have:

Jan-5
Feb-5
March-5
April-6
May-3
June-3
July-2
August-4
Sept-1
October-3
November-none
December-5

So between October and April there were 29 BD's
The other months there were 13 BD's

Interesting, the majority of them fell between December and April. 
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Re: What month was your BD?
#45: January 29, 2016, 04:14:24 AM
29 November 2013.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#46: January 29, 2016, 08:44:56 AM
So,  April IS the cruellest month.
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Re: What month was your BD?
#47: January 29, 2016, 10:10:31 AM
Small hint dec.BD sept
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Re: What month was your BD?
#48: January 29, 2016, 02:42:03 PM
Add another tick mark for January (1/3/11).
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Re: What month was your BD?
#49: February 02, 2016, 12:27:04 PM
Update ladies we now have:

Jan-6
Feb-5
March-5
April-6
May-3
June-3
July-2
August-4
Sept-2
October-3
November-1
December-5

So between October and April there were 32 BD's
The other months there were 13 BD's

Interesting, the majority of them fell between December and April. 
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