Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses
Archives => Archived Topics => Topic started by: willitgetbetter on April 15, 2015, 10:18:44 AM
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Hi Everyone,
Been talking to a few of you about doing a meetup. I took a look at where some of my "close friends" here live. Seems New York or Florida would be good choices for a weekend getaway. Just curious as to who is interested. Aiming for August or September...before it gets cold. 8) Starting to look into overnight packages etc and things to do. So ideas are welcome as well. And everyone is welcome, West Coast, Europe...join us!
Willit :-*
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Florida in August? - Errr - kinda hot. I vote for NYC.
September lots of people are bring kids back to school/college- something to think about with planning.
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Hmmm. True about Florida in August I guess. Lol
Ok. Let's see what other issues there are and work it out. Thanks for your input!
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Okay, I am biased, but I say the meetup should be somewhere in the middle of the country so its easily accessible by most of the members (no disrespect to any of our non-US LBSes here). And since Memphis is good enough to be the main hub for FedEx since its nice and centrally located, that is where my vote goes!
Just kidding actually-stay away from Memphis! In all seriousness, the Appalachian Mountains are absolutely GORGEOUS. East TN/Virginia/NC/SC, somewhere around there.
Doubt I will make it, but I sure would like to.
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-EDIT- My favorite location on the entire planet:
(http://www.amazingviewscabinrentals.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/Cades-Cove-Bike-Ride.jpg)
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I'm in as long as its warm and the sun is shining!!!
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August/Sept sounds perfect.
I'll be in NYC August 20th for my birthday but I can go anytime it's only about 3 hours from me.
Sounds like a ball. ;)
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I want to go to that picture.
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I want to go to that picture.
Me too. Not meaning to hijack, but here is one more (notice what I believe is a church in the pic)...These are pics of "Cades Cove" in Gatlinburg, TN:
https://wutcana.files.wordpress.com/2010/11/5-cades-cove-w-methodist-church1.jpg
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Yes, very nice TN.
Not too familiar with mid so figured main sites like NY, FL, Cali where I know there would be plenty to do and see.
Think Poconos in PA would be great choice!
Check out Camelbackresort.com.
They have huge suites with separate bedrooms. Sleeps 8 to 12. For a weekend in August it would be about $250-300 for two nights, per person. Includes daily waterpark admission. So we can get wet all weekend. ;)
Has a huge indoor waterpark, laser tag, golf, arcade. We could live it up like MLCers!!!
Also skiing, ziplining and spas for the more refined. Lol.
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I am a few hours from Poconos, I could do that!
TN - my sister and I were talking about renting a cabin in Gaitlinburg this summer
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willit -
I think you should ask a Moderator how to get this thread pinned up top of the forum - like the one for the aussies
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Right now I can't plan that far I'm advance since I don't even know where the heck I'm going to be.
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willit -
I think you should ask a Moderator how to get this thread pinned up top of the forum - like the one for the aussies
Thinking same. Will PM Old Pilot. Thanks.
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I would like to meet up with you. The Poconos is a good choice and I have seen that resort.
Since I live in Colorado, I am always hungry for beach time so anywhere there is a beach...the Carolina's (although it is more difficult to fly into)...I would love Florida so we could be by water.
OK so I have seen people try and arrange meetups here in the US and somehow they fizzle. NYC is great because many LBSers live close by and it's easy to fly into. There have been four meetups in Europe that I attended (Luxembourg, Portugal, Leeds and Ireland) and I cannot stress how much they helped me to heal....I will repeat, there has never been anything like the experience I had when I met fellow LBSers at these metopes.
There was also a small one in NYC a few years ago as well and one recently in Australia.
My suggestion is to fiqure out if people are interested, find a location and pick a date! And then go from there. I would be very happy to help arrange things if you wish willit.
At the risk of repeating myself, honestly, I also have 4 LBSers who live close by and that has been the best therapy that I have ever, ever had...to meet and talk to real people who know what this is like.
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I was very happy to meet you that day in NYC, as well.
Help would be gladly accepted! Thanks! ☺️
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Think Poconos in PA would be great choice!
Check out Camelbackresort.com.
I LOVE THIS IDEA
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the Appalachian Mountains are absolutely GORGEOUS. East TN/Virginia/NC/SC, somewhere around there.
I agree with the above, and the Poconos. I would love to go to NYC but know I cannot afford it. However these other options would be a LOT less costly. I think many of us are on VERY restricted budgets, so we need to steer away from beaches (which I LOVE) and touristy areas. Any mountains would offer plenty of outdoor options and have the added bonus of not being hot as the blue blazes ;) Just my .02 worth.
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Book,
Not sure if you agree with Poconos and can come or not. Would love to meet you! But maybe you and TN can set something up closer to you then that would be more affordable?
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Think Poconos in PA would be great choice!
Check out Camelbackresort.com.
I LOVE THIS IDEA
Great. MeNow will get two key cards, but you only get your own. ;D :P
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If anyone is computer say perhaps a chart could be started that we could add our names to, or like in the case of the Geographical thread, someone is designated to keep track. I would suggest the following headings:
Name 3 possible available dates Location Preferences Suggested Resorts or places to stay Single or shared accommodation
Off season rates might be less expensive in some places and I know from here, Frontier flys to several locations for very reasonable prices.
Sharing accommodation with three or 4 others can make the price quite reasonable.
Willit, I enjoy meeting you and you were spectacular!!!!
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Sample for Camelback:
3 Bedroom Grand Loft •Based on 8 Guests, Max 12
•Main Level: •Second Bedroom with 1 Queen Bed •Third Bedroom with 1 King Bed and 1 Queen Sofa Sleeper •Living room area with 1 Queen Sofa Sleeper
•Loft Level: •Master bedroom with 1 King Bed & private bathroom •1 Queen Bed in loft •Full Kitchen w/ Seating for 6 •Fireplace •Iron & Ironing Board •In-room Safe
Reservation Summary
Check In: Aug 28, 2015
Check Out: Aug 30, 2015
Room Name: 3 Bedroom Grand Loft
Room Type: 3BGLFT
Nights: 2
Rooms: 1
Adults
(21+) 8
Children 0
Amount: $1658.00
Taxes & Fees $194.06
Your Total: $1852.06
So $1900 for 8 people. $237.50 per person for TWO days of accommodations and waterpark entry. Similar price if did 1 or 2 bedroom suites with fewer people each.
And this is not even at the group rate. ;D
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Since there is a full kitchen that could keep the cost down as well as we could have breakfast and lunch in if we wished.
Airports nearby: I would most likely fly into NYC and rent a car if others are interested.
That weekend works fine for me.
82 miles: Newark, NJ (EWR / KEWR) Newark Liberty International Airport
96 miles: New York, NY (LGA / KLGA) LaGuardia Airport
107 miles: New York, NY (JFK / KJFK) John F. Kennedy International Airport
108 miles: Philadelphia, PA (PHL / KPHL) Philadelphia International Airport
132 miles: Harrisburg, PA (MDT / KMDT) Harrisburg International Airport
Domestic airports near Tannersville, PA
38 miles: Allentown, PA (ABE / KABE) Lehigh Valley International Airport
45 miles: Scranton, PA (AVP / KAVP) Wilkes-Barre/Scranton International Airport
64 miles: Morristown, NJ (MMU / KMMU) Morristown Municipal Airport
76 miles: Trenton, NJ (TTN / KTTN) Trenton-Mercer Airport
80 miles: Teterboro, NJ (TEB / KTEB) Teterboro Airport
82 miles: Newark, NJ (EWR / KEWR) Newark Liberty International Airport
93 miles: Newburgh, NY (SWF / KSWF) Stewart International Airport
96 miles: New York, NY (LGA / KLGA) LaGuardia Airport
108 miles: Lancaster, PA (LNS / KLNS) Lancaster Airport
108 miles: Philadelphia, PA (PHL / KPHL) Philadelphia International Airport
Local airports near Tannersville, PA
9 miles: Mount Pocono, PA (MPO / KMPO) Pocono Mountains Municipal Airport
16 miles: Stroudsburg, PA (ESP) Stroudsburg Pocono
43 miles: Hazleton, PA (HZL / KHZL) Hazleton Municipal Airport
46 miles: Wilkes-Barre, PA (WBW / KWBW) Wilkes-Barre Wyoming Valley Airport
54 miles: Perkasie, PA (RQH) Pennridge
54 miles: Quakertown, PA (UKT / KUKT) Quakertown Airport
62 miles: Doylestown, PA (DYL / KDYL) Doylestown Airport
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Wow, XYZ, you are on point already! :) Thanks!!!
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Wow, Will, that's awesome.
I'll probably drive. Sounds great. :D
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I'd be very interested and could car pool from VA with other to cut down the costs of travel.
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Its about 8 hour drive for me so I will be flying in. Not sure what airport would be best though. I have to check in to that. The resort looks fantastic!!!!
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Yeaaaa!!! I'm so excited. Thanks for all the feedback. Sounds like it may work out with a nice turn out. ;D
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Willit! Poconos would be GREAT! I could meet with Bail or Medusa and we could carpool from Va!
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Just over a 7 hour drive for me. But driving part way with friends would be a fun trip.
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Hmmm, don't have a lot of vacation days left as I've used most for when we were dealing with mom. However, this turnout looks too good to miss. What days are these?
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Hmmm, don't have a lot of vacation days left as I've used most for when we were dealing with mom. However, this turnout looks too good to miss. What days are these?
No real set date. I threw out Aug. 28-30 just because that is the week H is likely to take D for the summer. But I can always find someone to watch her of advanced notice whenever.
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Book, I might be holding up with you for the drive from SC! We can pick up Bail on the way and hook up with Blind somewhere, too!
This, of course, assumes I will have vacation time to even go with my new job (no, I don't have it yet). If not, then I am there but with one request: we have to rent the same cabin the man I'm married to and OW rented when they went to the Poconos and perform an exorcism. ;)
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I can do the Poconos - and it is a better option than NYC pricewise!
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My suggestion would be that people who are planning to be there should commit to sending willit the cost of the accommodation which is $237.50 if there are 8 people going. If more show, then I am sure that more rooms could be reserved.
For those of us who need to fly, the sooner I purchase a ticket, the cheaper it is for me.
Perhaps choose a cut off date in about 2 weeks time for people to decide and commit. Summer reservations at those resorts sometimes get filled up.
The weekend of August 28- 30 is the weekend before Labor Day so that might be a really good time.
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Thanks, XYZCF,
Whether it is in rooms for 8, 6 or 4, the price is around the same. We would have to figure out how many to each room. Some may only want to share with 1 person. And most would prob want their own bed. The one for 8 sleeps 12 but that is considering double occupancy. If people in that suite wanted own bed, it would prob be 4 or 5 separate beds in there.
I think the one for 8 with kitchen and all would be fun. But that's me. So let's get some input on preferences for:
--Sharing with how many people to a room
--Having own bed
If everyone wants own bed, the price may go up a bit. To maybe $400.
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I'm wondering if Menow and Mjölnir would need separate beds. That could get expensive.
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I'm wondering if Menow and Mjölnir would need separate beds. That could get expensive.
I think we could push two king beds together.
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I would want my own bed. I just checked and they have what is called a suite which has two queen beds and for two nights (Aug 28, 29) the cost is $413.73. If two people wished to share a room, that works out to $207.00 each but that doesn't give people a kitchen.
Just a thought so we can really accommodate the number of people who show interest. If more than 8 wish to come or people want their own beds (and I would think most will) there are lots of options.
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Me now for own bed...sorry I meant me too. ::) (Nah must be rubbing off on me)
Have an idea. What if we all got 1 bedrooms, 2 people to a room with 2 queen beds. But...pool an extra $100 together if we get enough people, in order to rent the 3 bedroom loft for our headquarters to meet, cook, play games, talk and eat together.
So with the $207 each that XYZCF found for 1 bedrooms, plus $100 for "LBS headquarters", would be $300 each for the two days! That way, those who want to hang late and make noise or sit and cry in a circle with wine by the fireplace can, and everyone can go to their own rooms when ready or tired. And the early risers can meet there and cook and have breakfast together. I won't be one of those, but will be one of the party animals, so save me some cold pancakes. ;D
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I think that is a great idea wilit
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Hmmmm :o :o :o :o
Poconos is where H and I honeymooned 35 years ago, but since we are reconciling that would not be a problem or would it???
Hard to pass up meeting everyone. It would be a long drive for me so I would probably be a flight too :)
Will think on it ??
thanks for all the info already, you all work fast!
31andcounting
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Yes. We try to get things done me and my friend XYZ. ;)
So, prob ahead of myself but I started to make a list of stuff we can each commit to bringing with regard to food and drinks for the LBS Lair. ;) Split it into 18 for now. Hope we get that or more for a turn out. That would qualify for group rate (10 room: the lair and 9 1 bedrooms). Called them last night.
1. Wine and liquor and mix (2 people)
2. Chicken (2 people)
3. Pork chops (1 person)
4. Steak (1 person)
5. Seafood (2 people)
6. Chips, pretzels, etc...and dip (1 person)
7. Sodas, juice, lemonade, iced tea (1 person)
8. Fruit, milk, yogurt and bagels (1 person)
9. Veggies (for dipping, salad and cooking), salad, salad dressing (1 person)
10. Paper plates, cups, napkins, utensils, plastic wine glasses (1 person)
11. Eggs, bacon, sausage, turkey bacon, turkey sausage (2 people)
12. Waffles, syrup, butter, jelly, orange juice, milk (1 person)
13. BBQ sauce, mayo, mustard, bread, cold cuts (1 person)
14. Pasta, ground beef, ground turkey, sauce (1 person)
Forget anything? Lol
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You ARE AMAZING.
I went to a week long yoga retreat once and once we knew who was coming, we assigned two people to plan for that meal, breakfast/lunch/dinner and 2 people who would be responsible for the cleanup. It worked well.
10 people would be wonderful!
I think that if it is confirmed, maybe others from Canada, Overseas or even Australia might be able to plan something to combine vacation and the meet up. That is what I did when I went to the European ones. I combined the metope with some travel.
I think that sometimes, especially for LBSers it is so hard to commit because life is difficult financially and with our whole world up rooted it is hard to make plans for the next day let along further down the line.
In my "early years" I actually was reluctant to make plans just in case he changed his mind and wanted me back :o
LOL I was also concerned that it would be very sad and morose and heck, I didn't know these people! But indeed, it was the exact opposite. :)
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I am in DE. Poco is are ok but the beach would be better! But I could make it possibly in the Poconos if the divorce hasn't ruined me by then. It cod be finalized around then (bad timing ?)
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I'm only a four hour drive away so I wouldn't miss it. Especially if there are going to be party animals. :)
I've gotten used to having my own bed. I think I'd want to stick with that.
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Brain, lad to see another male joining this gathering. It felt kind of awkward thinking about being the only guy to attend. Looking forward to it!
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Are we going to get a taste of Brain's famous muffins? (I swear no innuendo intended...hahaha)
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http://youtu.be/vFamCHL-1Dc
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Oh God, Do I need to find a bath suit that fits or can I just lounge with a cocktail (or two or ten). 8)
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Oh God, Do I need to find a bath suit that fits or can I just lounge with a cocktail (or two or ten). 8)
Yes, a suit. A bikini actually. Just make sure with all you got up there that it's secure so you don't show your Nah-bbs.
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Brain, lad to see another male joining this gathering. It felt kind of awkward thinking about being the only guy to attend. Looking forward to it!
I agree Bail, I'm glad you're going to be there. It was a little awkward deciding whether or not I wanted my own bed. And now nah wants to taste my muffins. :o
I really can't wait. This is the first thing I've really looked forward to in 9 months. The end of August is a long ways away. :(
If I'm going to bring muffins then I expect somebody to supply smarties. :D
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I'm in! Just need a definite date so I can arrange for kids and pets!!
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Somehow, I'm going to make this happen.
Brain, I will ensure three are smarties for all. :)
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Hi Everyone!
So sounds like we may have a good bunch.
Is everyone pretty much ok with the Aug. 28-30 dates? I would like to have some rooms blocked off as a group if we can get 9 rooms plus the LBS Lair. Then we would get the group rate.
Also, any requests for roomies? Talk amongst yourselves by PM or text, team up in 2's and let me know by PM so I can see how many rooms we need so far. Based on who has expressed interest, there are 6 rooms plus the LBS Lair so far, so need at least 3 more rooms (6 more people) for group rate. If someone wants their own room I believe it would be in $400 range, plus $100 for the Lair
I assume Brain and Bailmor so far. But only other guy out may be MeNow...Nah? :P
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I think I may come Saturday afternoon and stay until Sunday if that is OK.
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Is everyone pretty much ok with the Aug. 28-30 dates?
Perfect
I assume Brain and Bailmor so far. But only other guy out may be MeNow...Nah? :P
If no other guy shows up I don't mind, Mjölnir would have to get a separate room though.
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I think I may come Saturday afternoon and stay until Sunday if that is OK.
Sure. Can put three one nighters people in the Lair for $150 each. There are 3 bedrooms there. But it will be party central headquarters so they would have to keep that in mind. Lol. Or OP, instead, maybe there will be another 1 nighter that you can room with.
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Haven't been on much lately and just came across this thread. Would love to come if it's not too late to sign up. Will need to read over details more closely, date, location, etc. but if there's room I'd love to go
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I would like my own bed - but am willing to share a room - anyone interested in being my roomie?
PM me please.
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Blind and I are going to be roomies.
I can officially afford the trip. I forgot I'd earned a nice Chuck of change from my CC points. Happy surprise in the mail, yesterday. :)
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Haven't been on much lately and just came across this thread. Would love to come if it's not too late to sign up. Will need to read over details more closely, date, location, etc. but if there's room I'd love to go
Yes. All are welcome I have not reserved rooms yet. As of yet it is Aug 28-30
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Blind and I are going to be roomies.
I can officially afford the trip. I forgot I'd earned a nice Chuck of change from my CC points. Happy surprise in the mail, yesterday. :)
Ok. Great! Happy to hear. Always nice to get something other than bills in the mail. :)
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I would be interested as well - probably driving from NC so if anyone wants to carpool (Medusa, Book, others??)
How exciting to be able to meet ya'll face to face!
Peace
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I finally have a room mate - Nah and I will be going to share a room. LOL watch out MeNow - Nah and I are going to gang up on you!
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I finally have a room mate - Nah and I will be going to share a room. LOL watch out MeNow - Nah and I are going to gang up on you!
Hope he's organizing his eggplant hammocks now. I expect them to be color coordinated with his cowboy hats and pasties.
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I finally have a room mate - Nah and I will be going to share a room. LOL watch out MeNow - Nah and I are going to gang up on you!
Hope he's organizing his eggplant hammocks now. I expect them to be color coordinated with his cowboy hats and pasties.
And don't forget - I want to see lots of bedazzling!
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checked my schedule and don't see anything that would keep me from meetup. Would share room if anyone else interested. Just let me know. Sounds like it will be alot of fun!
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Hi Everyone,
I will be calling to reserve 10 rooms with Group Sales today. I don't know the details with regards to when we need to pay by, etc. But will let you know later today. Anyone else who is interested, please let me know. When they block off rooms it's usually to have all the rooms close by so the sooner I know if we need more rooms, the more likely the additional rooms will be nearby. So anyone who hasn't alresdy expressed interest, let me know! ;D
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I see much trouble brewing with the pairings I'm seeing so far. Big trouble. My unselfish suggestion - 1 room with 1 large bed for all of us so I can keep a better eye on you. That way I can keep you out of trouble.
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I see much trouble brewing with the pairings I'm seeing so far. Big trouble. My unselfish suggestion - 1 room with 1 large bed for all of us so I can keep a better eye on you. That way I can keep you out of trouble.
You mean 3 eyes.
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Do we have enough firm commitments for 10 rooms? I have not confirmed yet as I am working out details regarding other possibilities of where I might go if I fly east (to visit family in Canada). Perhaps it is ok to block off rooms and can change that later? I am hoping to be able to attend but it's not confirmed for me yet.
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I'm jealous :)
That is my H's birthday week......might be an issue with my reconciling if I left for this fun filled adventure!!
I Am enjoying the planning and so excited you all get to meet!!
(hugs)
31andcounting
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I want to come, but I am just not sure I can swing it financially. I will likely not know until probably the month before. Will that be a problem? If I am able I will definitely love to carpool. Peace and I can meet up near the VA border. Pick up Bail, Medusa or whoever else and head to the Poconos!!
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Well, I will reserve only if they give a far out date by which we can cancel. Think we have about 16 "interested". Have to find out the terms and will before I formally reserve.
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Message me if you need a check or if I can direct a deposit to the place.
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Haven't been on much lately and just came across this thread. Would love to come if it's not too late to sign up. Will need to read over details more closely, date, location, etc. but if there's room I'd love to go
Ditto. I would love to join. The Poconos are fun and affordable. I would be fine sharing a room as long as I get my own bed. I will bring anything and make really good lots of stuff.
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I'm still interested. Is there an official list? I want to make sure I don't miss this.
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Hi Ruby and MBIB,
No official list yet. Firming up holds on a few rooms. Will post something by weekend and we can start getting a list together. Thanks! And Nah, will likely have it set up that everyone calls up to pay on their own for their room. But will let everyone know about that as well.
Willit
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And Nah, will likely have it set up that everyone calls up to pay on their own for their room. But will let everyone know about that as well.
Good plan. Thanks willit. :)
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I've always been amazed at how thoroughly and well women plan things. Thanks willit for your organization and planning skills.
book, we'll be happy to feed you free of charge as there will be a kitchen and I'll even chip in for room expenses if your sweet southern self can make it. (I'm hoping I can make it myself)
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I've always been amazed at how thoroughly and well women plan things. Thanks willit for your organization and planning skills.
book, we'll be happy to feed you free of charge as there will be a kitchen and I'll even chip in for room expenses if your sweet southern self can make it. (I'm hoping I can make it myself)
MN, if you can't make it, can you at least send Mjölnir?
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book, we'll be happy to feed you free of charge as there will be a kitchen and I'll even chip in for room expenses if your sweet southern self can make it. (I'm hoping I can make it myself)
I'd also be willing to chip in if necessary. I hope to see MN there but am not really interested in Mjölnir, with or without MN. Sorry.
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I've always been amazed at how thoroughly and well women plan things. Thanks willit for your organization and planning skills.
book, we'll be happy to feed you free of charge as there will be a kitchen and I'll even chip in for room expenses if your sweet southern self can make it. (I'm hoping I can make it myself)
MN, if you can't make it, can you at least send Mjölnir?
How will I ship him, by freight or ship? The shipping weight will be expensive. Very.
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Can't you just have him hitch a ride?
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Hey, you guys. S17 and I are currently mulling a week's holiday in NY. He wants to see the city - and he's an active sort of S so we will have heaps to do and it's better than the beach for us. I notice Camelback is only 1hr 45 mins approx from NY! Which means, in theory, we could come and join you folks! To meet so many of you all in one go would be awesome, to say the least, and perhaps the chance of a lifetime. Think of the autographs. :)
So, without getting TOO excited (as school restarts about Sept 3rd, I think), is anyone else bringing an S or D?
Looks like there's tons for an active S to do in Camelback Resort? He'd love those watersides...
I'll keep following developments, as we firm up our own holiday plans. Looks like we'll be in NY City sometime between 12 Aug and the end of August, anyway - for anyone who's in the city permanently and would like to join us for a drink!
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I vote for Florida. Lol.
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MBIB & MN,
Ya'll are the sweetest, and I DO want to come. If my new job is a M-F gig (please God) I WILL be there. Hopefully I will be able to get off work early or, have a day off wherever I move on to. If not I will just be pulling in late on Friday night. Looking forward to seeing how the details pan out. I need a roommate, so ladies let me know who has not paired up.
PS.....is MJ detachable MN??? Hope you are ble to come MN!
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No but he can reach from here to there.
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MN that is a wee bit frightening. I don't know anyone who can handle all that ??? :o ;D
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MN that is a wee bit frightening. I don't know anyone who can handle all that ??? :o ;D
Solely the vacuous OW's.
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It sounds like MN's going to have to get two suites.
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Willit, your are right but I don't think MJ would touch them OW with a 10ft pole ;)
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a 10ft pole ;)
I was going to comment, but no, too easy.
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ROFL,
Nah you know I did that on purpose ;D
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Only 10ft, Book? MeNow would consider that an insult. ::)
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Well I guess so if MJ is supposed to stretch all the way from OK to PA..... ::) ::) ::) ::)
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Well I'll give it shot. I need someone to hold it on the Oklahoma side though.
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willit, has there been any list formed and reservations set up yet for the meetup in August? If so, I would like to get that onto my schedule because that will be an awesome time! And will let me start thinking about food and refreshments!
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My understanding is the date is Aug 28-30
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Wow, It sounds like so much fun! Unfortunately it is 10 hour drive for me. I would have to fly. I just can't afford room cost plus the flight right now. If I happen to win the lottery any time soon, count me in lol. I bought a powerball ticket tonight, maybe its the winner!
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Hi Guys,
Sorry I haven't been posting anything new about this. Just started a new job. Been busy. And past few days have been stressful. H has reached a new low. If you read my last post you will know what I mean.
Hoping to have final word tomorrow or at end of the week the latest. I am looking forward to meeting those of you I have not yet met. :)
Thanks for your patience.
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Hi Everyone,
So here is the deal. Group sales rate not likely. Need to do ten room minimum. And one night's rate would have to be paid for each room in order for them to put a hold on the rooms. So individual reservations is how it will go.
I was told that the rate for the August 28-August 30 weekend would be $738. That would be per room, for anywhere between 1-4 people. The rooms have 2 Queen size beds and two pullout queen sleeper sofas. So if 4 people to a room it would be $184 plus tax and fees. If 2 to a room, it would be $368.50 plus tax and fees. Each room will have to be reserved and paid for separately by the occupants. 855-515-1283.
Let me know who thinks they will be coming. And give me your thoughts on how many to a room for each of you so we can see how to formulate roommates.
Thanks!
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I'll call tomorrow to book a room for me and air :D
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Great!
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Willit,
Couple of questions???? How soon to we need to book for the block of rooms, and pay the one night? Also are we still going to go with the group cooking plan, and everyone signing up to bring stuff. Also does this rate include the water park entry for everyone in each room? Hope I am not being annoying.......I am a planner! I am also so excited!
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Willit,
Couple of questions???? How soon to we need to book for the block of rooms, and pay the one night? Also are we still going to go with the group cooking plan, and everyone signing up to bring stuff. Also does this rate include the water park entry for everyone in each room? Hope I am not being annoying.......I am a planner! I am also so excited!
No not annoying at all. Lol.
The water park entry is included.
As for the LBS Lair, it would be $1743. That is for a two bedroom corner loft with kitchen, table seating for 6, a couch and a fireplace and a deck. Half has to be paid upon reservation on a credit card, so not sure how to do this. I don't know if people would be comfortable with sending me $175 money orders (presuming there would be 10 of us) so I can put it all together and book it. If more than 10, will return partial refunds to everyone for the difference. Suggestions?
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Hmmmmm, that is a little steep for some of us. While I think it is a great idea to have a place to gather and cook it would prob be more affordable for everyone to do their own thing for meals. Just my .02 worth.
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Hi,
Still interested in attending, however would need to share a room because of cost. If anyone would be willing, please message me. Thanks! Also not sure where others are coming from, but would be willing to pick up and share a ride. It appears I'm about 6 hours west.
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Room is booked for me and Air!!
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Room is booked for me and Air!!
Yea!!!!!
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It there a ballpark amount that the room and any extra areas are going to cost? I am making sure of my finances and any other expendures (food, alcohol, etc.) And are there any other males committed (MeNow, Brain)? I would not like to pay for a single room. But I am looking to this meet up. Should be a great time and comraderie!
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It there a ballpark amount that the room and any extra areas are going to cost? I am making sure of my finances and any other expendures (food, alcohol, etc.) And are there any other males committed (MeNow, Brain)? I would not like to pay for a single room. But I am looking to this meet up. Should be a great time and comraderie!
I'm ready to commit whenever you are Bail. It would probably be best if I commit the money sometime before June 11. That's court day for my wife's divorce. I may be broke afterwards. :(
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I'm ready to commit as soon as Bail, MBIB, Nah, Medusa, BS, Book, Willit, 27, Air and xyzf do.
I'm willing to split a room. Still interested in the main room if it's feasible for everyone. And we need for some activity planner to suggest some activities (besides Spank the Monkey).
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I'm ready to commit as soon as Bail, MBIB, Nah, Medusa, BS, Book, Willit, 27, Air and xyzf do.
I'm willing to split a room. Still interested in the main room if it's feasible for everyone. And we need for some activity planner to suggest some activities (besides Spank the Monkey).
Air and Nah have already booked a room MeNow. Nah and Air are rooming together so be forewarned! ;)
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Medusa, BS13, and I will be rooming together...the 3 amigas :) We still need to book our room.
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Hi everyone. So some people have PM-ed me to say that they can't make it anymore. Seems like there may be 10 of us or so. And some who are going expressed that getting the extra room may be too much money for them. If there will only be 10 or so of us, maybe we should skip the room. Not sure how to handle this. There is also the option to have that be one of the rooms some of us stay in. If we do that then we would need to make some type of curfew and schedule so the occupants can get some sleep and have some privacy at some point. Those rooms hold 4, would be about $400. Maybe you gentlemen, if there are 4 of you, could do that and we can hang there until you kick us out. Suggestions?
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So do we have confirmation on those who def want to come? I know Nah and Air have already reserved. I def want to come, and am looking forward to it.
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Nah and Air are the only two that have confirmed or booked a room as far as I know.
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I am ready to sign up and make a reservation and will put the room on my credit card for now. Hopefully, Brain and MeNow will be joining.
Is there anything I need to do so we are sort of in the same area room wise? I have no problem having the Bachelor Pad being the party room? Who needs sleep anyways! It is overrated! ;)
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No. Rooms not blocked because I would have had to pay deposit on 10 rooms myself. So just take best of what they offer regarding location of the room.
The 2 Bedroom Corner Loft has full kitchen and fireplace and sleeps 3 in own beds. $1558. So that would be $520 each.
The 3 Bedroom Condo sleeps 5 in their own beds. Would be about $1658 if there were 5 of you guys. Would be $332 each.
These are options for the ladies as well if 3 or 5 also want to get together and get a Condo. The rooms also have sofa beds but I didn't count those when talking about beds above.
Lastly, I see that there is a cabana option of $400 for the two days. Thinking since the guys would each be paying about $100 more than we are for their rooms so we can have an LBS headquarters, us 8 or so ladies can pool together and pay $50 each towards the cabana.
Aquatopia Poolside Indoor Cabana
•Private Deluxe Sitting Area-Seats 8
•Personal Cabana Host
•Oversized Pool Towels
•TV
•Ceiling Fan
•Located in Aquatopia Indoor Waterpark
•Waterpark passes not included- Overnight Room Reservation Required. This is not a sleeping room.
The Cabana would also be a nice outdoor headquarters. We get our own assistant too!! Drinks please!!!
I could probably handle paying the deposit for this myself and collect money that weekend from the ladies.
I can't wait!
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The 2 bedroom corner loft looks good if it's just going to be me, Bail, and MeNow representing the men. In addition to the 1558 base fee there's an additional 182.52 in taxes and fees for a total of 1740.52 or about 580.17 each. Not too bad a price for a room that I've been told will be filled with women until the wee hours of the morning, including nah. ;D ;D ;D
If the reservation is booked by June 30 and the $200 Grand Opening Passport to Savings is requested using the promo code GOPEN you'll receive a coupon for a $20 cabana discount and coupons for free coffee, pizza, etc.
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Wow, MBIB, good work!
Will be sure to use the code when I book the cabana.
Everyone who is interested, please PM me about rooming. I just sent a PM to everyone on here who has not indicated that they have accommodations or roommate arrangements to see if we can configure at set up for everyone. There are so far 4 guys who posted on here. And 10 ladies aside from myself that had expressed interest and have not since declined. As stated before, the women can also get 2 bedroom or 3 bedroom condo and room together. So email me! Thanks, everyone!
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Willit, I have mentioned this to Janus2014 and she would be interested as well. Not sure if she has responded. Might be another person if needed.
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How necessary is the cabana? I don't want to be a Debbie Downer, but my reality is that an addition $50 is likely I not doable for me. I really hate the idea of saying I will have to pull out of this meet-up, but I'm already living on the razor's edge and the only way I was able to do it was because I got a windfall of $250. If I hadn't had that, I wouldn't be attending.
Please remember that there are people here who are either living hand-to-mouth or are damn close to it.
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Hi Medusa,
It's not "necessary" and I am aware that people are struggling. I am as well. But I'm just putting everything out there to see what people want to do. If we agree on getting the cabana and you can't contribute I'm sure that will be fine.
Being that we are struggling this is will likely be our only vacation all year so, for me an additional $50 where we can relax privately, with a TV and in the shade by the pool with an assistant to bring us drinks and towels, etc... is worth it. Depending on how many people are on board, and my finances, I will take care of what is left over. And all will be welcome.
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Just caught hold of this thread. So when and where? August 12th is my OD birthday. Other than that, I'm good for the rest of the month. So, where to?
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August 28-30 in the Poconos. I thought I told you about this.
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August 28-30 in the Poconos. I thought I told you about this.
You did, I forgot. :) You know things have been hairy and hectic for me at best lately. ;) I'll make plans to be there. Hey, maybe we can carpool?
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That is what is being talked about and in the plans.
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I'm up for splitting the 2 bedroom loft. The Cabana would be nice but not a necessity. If Bail and MBIB are in, I'll try to first schedule my vacation, then book my portion of the room. So, how would us guys coordinate paying for it?
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Just saw this..../.
Great that you guys are doing this. Wish I could come. Consider the beach next time.....Charleston, SC or Isle of Palms or Sullivan's Island. They have rental houses by the week.
Have fun!
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With the beginning of July tomorrow, I wanted to reach out to the male constituents and get our lodging plans in order for the meet-up in late August. In some earlier posts, I can't remember who posted something about a deluxe double suite or something like that and the cost for each would be around $500 or so. With other summertime expenses, I would like to know if either of you would have any interest in just getting a double queen room which would be about $300 per night so for both nights it would be around $200. This is just rough figures. I wanted to gauge the interest. Feel free to offer any other suggestions.
And for everyone else, has there been a definite number committed for this? I know nah and airmid have reserved a room and I believe Medusa, Book, Blindsided and 27 years have reserved a room. I am aware of potentially another two or three people who have expressed interest. I guess now would be about the time to see what our real attendance number figures to be.
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Hi all!
Medusa, Book, 27 Years and I are booked and paid for!
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I learned yesterday that I owe my wife $10,000 plus just over $1000 per month, which I don't have just lying around, so anything that might bring the cost of the meetup down would be appreciated.
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Hi MBIB,
I believe the cheapest arrangement is the room with 2 beds and a sleeper which would mean 3 people to a room at about $750, so $250 each for the weekend.
With my divorce having started and no roommate so far I am exploring options as well. May be coming with two girlfriends so I can also do the $250 for the weekend. Still waiting to hear back from them but they are very interested. Good that there will be two of them because they can hang out together during the times I spend with all of you.
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I'm not tied to any particular scenario so whatever makes it easier for everyone else. Bail, MBIB, we need to discuss what we want to do. The cheaper version is ok as well as the others.
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I can swing either but a less expensive version would be easier. But I think the plan was for everyone to hang out in the men's suite, right? Hard to do if the men don't have a suite.
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Come on guys get it together, have you noticed the women are all organized?? 8)
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Hahahaha, Nah.
Another alternative is to get the cabana to hang out in if there are any left. It would be $400 for the weekend. I am willing to put in $100 of it for that. And maybe the rest from others, like $30 each since it seems there may be 10 or so of us.
Only downside of the cabana vs the loft is no kitchen. So can't cook. Everything we eat would be take out or restaurant. But meeting is the most important aspect so whichever way it goes, it goes. :)
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So far, attendees that I know of:
Nah
Airmid
Medusa
27 Years
Blindsided13
Book
Willitgetbetter
Bailmor
MBIB
MeNow
Did I forget anyone?
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So far, attendees that I know of:
Nah
Airmid
Medusa
27 Years
Blindsided13
Book
Willitgetbetter
Bailmor
MBIB
MeNow
Did I forget anyone?
Three others expressed interest:
My3girls
Greenapple
Janus2014
Not sure how serious now but there was a yes at one time
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I think xyzcf expressed interest.
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The last time I spoke with xyzcf she said she wasn't going to be there. I'll try to find out if she's changed her mind.
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Sorry but I will not be joining the group this time. I am in Italy at present for two weeks so that is all the time I can get away this summer. Have a wonderful time!
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Sounds like a good time xyz. I'm sorry we'll miss you.
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I don't know about all of you, but the last weekend in August cannot get here soon enough for this girl. I was just looking at some of the lodge amenities, and realized they have a spa too :o :o :o Oh boy, I think I am gonna have to set aside a few bucks for a Swedish massage. I love a good massage and that is a very rare and special treat for me. However I need it and deserve it!!!
Yep, I am looking forward to this getaway!
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If you can't find me, I'll either be in the spa or the bar.
In RI those words rhyme, they both end in "H"... ;D ;D
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LOL the spah and the bah also rhyme with Nah ;D ;D
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Book I'm in on the spa!
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Give me the money for the spa treatments and I will give the massages! $100 fro 15 minutes!
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$75 for 30 minutes and I've been told that I'm VERY good. But if I give you a massage that's the most that I will pay you. :D
But I might be willing to include a free muffin. ;D
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ROFL, Brain has the right idea Bail! Y'all are too funny. Bail your prices are outrageous, for $100 I can get a whole hour from the professionals ;)
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