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Is your MLCer High or Low Energy

High Energy
18 (39.1%)
Low Energy
17 (37%)
I don't know, he seems kind of in-between
11 (23.9%)

Total Members Voted: 45

Voting closed: June 27, 2011, 01:28:35 PM

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#80: October 19, 2013, 04:49:58 AM
Hi all,

I have a low-energy wallower who also displays short-term fits of high-energy replay.

Does this board still have groups for LBSs to join based on their MLCer's type? I saw something about that, but can't locate the groups (if they exist).

Thanks!

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Re: MLCer energy types
#81: October 19, 2013, 05:18:00 AM
Quote from: WorkingHard on October 19, 2013, 04:49:58 AM
Hi all,

I have a low-energy wallower who also displays short-term fits of high-energy replay.

Does this board still have groups for LBSs to join based on their MLCer's type? I saw something about that, but can't locate the groups (if they exist).

Thanks!

WH

Hi Working Hard,

This is in your Forum profile.  If you go to Modify Forum Profile - the last option is Group Membership.

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Re: MLCer energy types
#82: October 19, 2013, 08:06:23 PM
Limitless,

Thank you! Just joined a group. How do I post to it or read the posts it contains?

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Re: MLCer energy types
#83: October 19, 2013, 08:12:15 PM


There aren't any special posts or threads for the Group.

The Group is just an identifier.

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Re: MLCer energy types
#84: October 19, 2013, 08:14:39 PM
Okay. Got it. Thanks again.

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Re: MLCer energy types
#85: October 20, 2013, 12:27:36 AM
Quote from: OldPilot on October 12, 2013, 10:34:30 AM

Also the adrenalin drains the body's resources and other parts start to wear out quicker.


Makes me wonder if that's why H has new and unusual health issues
(It seems many other MLCers on this board do too)
And why, with these new health issues, H seems to have slowed down A LOT

Hmmm.....thanks for the extra brick in my wall of understanding
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Re: MLCer energy types
#86: October 20, 2013, 12:33:47 AM
My H's health continues to deteriorate and he keeps asking me why. I have told him its his life and lifestyle and that his body is speaking to him. I don't know if that sunk in!

Every week now he has some new health issue!

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Re: MLCer energy types
#87: October 20, 2013, 03:45:33 AM
Joining this thread as I'm very intrigued. I read a lot in the forum about the types. Can someone enlighten me: my H is happy, suffers from no ailments, is not depressed. Does not contact me. Is perfectly pleasant when he sees me. Us sure of his decision to leave. Is adamant he will pay for everything. Sees therapist to understand himself. Wants to see his children, loves and misses them. Me, he cares for, is not in love for a long time, would be happy to be friends. Wants me to find happiness.  Pays me weekly maintenance, is not doing crazy things. So I see he is not a boomerang, not a vanished (told me he was always there if I needed him). What is he?
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Re: MLCer energy types
#88: October 20, 2013, 07:14:08 AM
PG, an MLCer IN DENIAL of the damage he 's creating, that's who!! I am convinced you will see some vast changes in him as you continue NC and are very dark with him.
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Re: MLCer energy types
#89: October 20, 2013, 07:22:23 AM
I hope so, cos he is truly outside the box of what I hear. So I wondered if there were other types, I've only read boomerang and vanisher but he's neither. I wait to see for my curiosity.
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