[Lanzo]

A couple more for the list


“I could never call you a bad Father”
Previous day she called me a terrible Father.

“That it now, we’re finished, there’s no turning back”
Next day, “I never said there was no turning back”.


Lanzo

[misdiz]

"I love you but I'm not in love with you"
"she appreciates me"
"if you hadn't snooped, you never would've know, are you happy now?"
"I can't stand you"
"you don't know the value of money"
"we haven't been happy for very long"
"we never shouldn't gotten married"
"millions of people divorce"

[Albatross]

"I know that You really love me, but I don't know why is Your love destructive to me."
"It is not normal being with someone for 25 years in marriage."
"I am 22 years old."
"Find for your self another woman."
"I can't live like this anymore."

[Mac49]

My Favorites

1. Don't make me choose you'll probably lose
2. You're the Narcissist
3. Where's the money obviously you're frequenting prostitutes.
4. I would look at you while out at the bar with my friends and just loath you.
5. Why shouldn't I give my friend monkey hugs?

O I could go on and on and on

Mac

[SSG]

H:  I am moving into her (OW) guest house.  I need to time to think.
You and I cannot talk to each other anymore.  We can't live together anymore.

Me:  Are you in love with her?   No
Me:  Are you having an affair with her?  No
Me:  Do you still love me?  No
Me:  Do you hate me? No
Me:  You never said a word to me about being unhappy..why?
H:  I don"t know.  It happened because it was a bunch of little things coming together.  The chemistry between us is not the same anymore.
H:  I think I have a midlife crisis.
Me:  Your too old for a midlife crisis.

The was BD day...he had been having an affair with her for 13 months already)
There was no guest house..one month later he was gone. OW was a good friend.

[crazyjourney]

The passion is gone     you killed it!!!!

Maybe she is just an escape.

Call it a midlife crisis, I dont know.

I feel like I am in a tunnel and when I get to the end there will be time for me.

I have done everything for everyone else all my life and now I just want some time for me.

Told his mam the reason he left was it was like a slow death (hmm that was nice).

x

[i can and will cope]

ow is ten times the woman you are this after knowing her fr a month or two??

Im gonna throw you out and move ow in before i give you this house

[CrazyTrain]

I love you but I'm not in love with you.
I am so confused.
I need space.  Give me space.  I am so confused.
It's my time to be happy now.
It's all about me now.
It's time for me to be selfish.
I am never coming back. There is nothing you can do.
I don't want to have to worry about anyone except for me and S18.
I have things I want to accomplish.
She makes me feel alive, like a man, and appreciated.  (barf!)
It's not you, it's me.
I became unhappy and decided it was time.  (To have an affair, apparently).
Best friends don't do this to each other.  (Duh?  Ya think?)
You never came home at lunch on Fridays to surprise me.  (Uhh..you were always busy.)
You didn't appreciate me or what I did for your family.  (So saying thank you wasn't enough?)
I want to be able to come and go as I please. 
I want to be able to do whatever I want when I want.  (Never stopped you from doing it before.)
I want to be able to f&*k anyone I want.  (Seems like you already are.)

I could go on and on and on and on......
You can't make this $hit up!! 
CT 

[bebrave2013]

I received an altered version of ILYBNILWY of "I don't love you like I should".
"I have a great life just a bad marriage"
"Your the only person I've known"
"You make my skin crawl"
"I'll never get married again, cause I'll never trust anyone again" (WTF! He did everything to break my trust and I did nothing)
"Never been more sure of any decision in his life" (about leaving me)
"We're not compatible and never have been"
"Life is short and I am not going to waste any more time in a mediocre marriage"
"Can look at me, touch me, hug me, kiss me, and have sex with me and feel nothing"
"I don't know who I am any longer"
" I can let go of my anger when your not around"
I could go on and on but the one that stung the most was "Married 15 years and always knew you weren't the one" Ouch!!

[bebrave2013]

Ok, found more in my old journaling..
"Last 15 years have been a waste of his life"
"Has had an awakening and not ging down this path anymore"
"He needs to be in control of his life and put himself first"
"I hate your personality, you bring out the worst in me"
"Life has no meaning as long as I am with you"

A little bit about me since this is my first post.

Me 39
H 39
M 15 years
Bomb drop 1/2011
Dissolution 2/2012
No children, only occasional contact about dog
Moved back to my development in with a woman two streets over 1 year ago.